Harold trolled Christian Mingles for a gal. And his supporters state he was a "religious person." How many times have we seen this before? This guy used and abused the idea he was a good "Christian" man and PREYED upon women. Sandra met Harold around maybe 1983, in college, so she had no internet ability to research this monster. Toni met Harold around maybe 1999, (2012 - 13 = 1999) so she also had no internet ability to do an internet background and credit check. If there's something to take away from this - it's tell our kids to do internet background and credit checks on potential mates, and make sure they look at each other's FILED tax returns! There are no reasons for these con-men to get away with this anymore.