Conversely, I wonder if dad was lying and making these things up when he wrote them onto the Protection Order request.
Maybe Mom's cover things to protect their young children. And, it is my bet in this particular situation, the Dad lied to protect his own backside. IMO MOO
Must admit, speaking for myself, and from what has been made public so far, am finding myself inclined to believe mom more at this time than dad. Alcoholics always find reasons to blame everyone else except for themselves. Saw this first hand with several in my family. The alcoholic always played the passive victim, it was always the other person's fault that they reacted the way they did. 'Woe is me, I don't know why such and such is reacting this way or treating me this way' :sigh:
So if they can't even be honest about their role in a conflicts or for their reasons for drinking, how do we know they are capable of honesty in other areas?
Something Mark said in the one video (the one taped at the video store or whatever it was). Am paraphrasing, but I remember several times Mark said something along the lines of how Dylan planned Monday and Tuesday with friends, how he understood how important his friends were to him. He repeated the latter half of that sentence a few times in that interview.
So, putting myself in Mark's situation briefly. I share custody with the ex but don't see my child much. Then the ex moves away and I get ticked for whatever reasons. I see my child in September (though no details made public about how much Dylan did or didn't see his friends during that visit).
Then get granted a court ordered visitation for November - Thanksgiving, at that, a holiday. My child wants to see their friends
the very same night they fly in. In all honesty, would I really be happy about the fact that, first night in - my child wants to spend it with friends and not me?
Even in families that are close and get along, I can't see a parent being that understanding and trying to emphasize how important their friends are. Most parents want that first night with their child.
I'm just saying, for all the fighting and dysfunction in that family, was Mark really 'okay' about Dylan seeing his friends - even the first two days of his visit home with dad?