You may well be right about MR trying to make himself look good. But this case has been played out in public like this since the beginning - warts and all criticism of flaws and misdeeds, and without doubt IMO MR has been on the receiving end of most of it. His appearance, mannerisms, speech patterns, actions, employment, finances, relationships or lack of ... literally everything about him has IMO been fodder for those who believe implicitly in his guilt.
I don't know if he is guilty or not, but I do know that I haven't seen enough to make me so convinced that there is no other possible ending to this sad story.
Drifting off on a tanget now ... so none of the following is specifically directed at you Ghostwheel
IMO you also wouldn't have to look to far on these threads to find many of us who also have personal experience with abusive family members or loved ones. I have briefly mentioned my personal history here previously - if you had asked me years ago if my father was capable of harming any of us in a fit of rage I would say most definitely - his mates would have never believed it though. I carried that fear with me well into adulthood - I lived on the opposite side of the planet for a while and a call from my mum about threats to her and my young sister would have me in tears. None of us know where he is now, or even if he is still alive. He has never met any of his grandchildren, or even seen my sister as an adult. Sad, but at the same time kind of a relief.
So ... sitting on the fence or seeing other possibilities is nothing to do with living in la-la land or being naive or stupid. There just isn't enough solid factual information to so firmly have that mindset.
And a very big MOO to conclude!