cluciano63
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It is hard to think of ten years of sexual and physical abuse as a positive outcome...hope those girls/young women can recover.
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It is hard to think of ten years of sexual and physical abuse as a positive outcome...hope those girls/young women can recover.
To be honest I haven't gone back and listened to the MB interview with Mark but your post refreshes my memory of it and I believe that your correct.[/B]
IIRC MR mentioned the school football story in response to MB's question about whether or not he had talked to Dylan about how he liked his new school. I didn't interpret it as being him slamming ER - it was simply an anecdote he shared in response to a question. The only hint of criticism, if any, was in reference to all children having the opportunity to play football if they wanted in middle school.
The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge.
Stephen Hawking
Hearing Dylan was interested in playing football really took me by surprise because he was a devoted baseball player. Someone pointed out that football players practice and play during the summer and so do baseball players so Dylan would not be able to play both sports in CS.
<modsnip>. MOO
Wow. It's hard for me to think of alleviating the daily suffering and brutalization of kidnap victims as anything but a positive outcome.
IMO the only reason the word positive was used was in contrast to the alternative - which would be death. I am sure the parents of the Ohio women would be seeing their daughters' escape as a huge positive after all these years. A day, week or years later it would be a positive outcome in my eyes if I was a parent - given the alternative.
The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge.
Stephen Hawking
I think of a positive outcome as one where Dylan would be someplace his father stowed him, and now does not know what to do to make him reappear, one where he did not suffer for a decade in the most unimaginable ways possible. But of course we have already had the debate about fates worse than death, etc. and how some people can recover and live happy, healthy lives. I hope those young women can do so.
I guess I feel like I could not recover from such an experience but am relieved if others can, of course.
I hope the child also agrees, that is all I am saying.
I must be missing something as I honestly don't understand. A poor abducted child, and their family for that matter, have IMO been robbed (by the perpetrator) of their ability to agree or disagree about anything. What is left is hope. So... hope for what? An end to suffering via death, to remain alive in continued captivity, or release/escape to be reunited with loved ones?
Hearing Dylan was interested in playing football really took me by surprise because he was a devoted baseball player. Someone pointed out that football players practice and play during the summer and so do baseball players so Dylan would not be able to play both sports in CS.
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I agree. I don't understand why the idea of a child being raped and tortured every day by some abductor is considered to be a ~positive because there's a miniscule chance they will be recovered years from now.
Oriah I may have missed many things you have said here but......
Why would many dogs hit in the same place?
Would that say to you someone is in that lake?
The three women being found and rescued from a monster who abused them emotionally, sexually and physicaly for 10 years IS a positive outcome. They have finally escaped captivity and the abuse.
What parent would rather have their child dead then recovered, rescued and returned to them????
Jaycee Dugard, Elizabeth Smart and Shawn Hornback all were kidnapped and abused sexually, emotionally, etc. They had the positive outcome of being rescued, as opposed to being brutally murdered. They are all doing well and thriving in spite of their ordeals. They've all started a new beginning and have taken control of their lives. That is a positive outcome. IMO, JMO, MOO.
I am taking that to mean that the positive outcome was that they escaped with their lives, not found dead somewhere. Survival is the most positive outcome there could be. While they may have great difficulty overcoming the trauma they went through, and need professional help, I'm sure that all 3 of them are grateful that they are still alive.
In the article A Boys Life, there is a picture of Dylans friend JC who lives in CS and he is standing in the street holding a football. This is where he, Dylan and other friends played football so maybe Dylan did want to enroll in the football program at Lewis Palmer Middle School.
http://www.durangoherald.com/article/20121215/NEWS01/121219687/-1/news01&source=RSS
I am not saying that death is better than the recovery process. I am just talking about the actual ordeal here. It's hard for me to "hope" that Dylan is being raped and tortured every day because of the extremely miniscule chance he will be found years from now. When a missing child is found alive, I am grateful for the ending. But for current missing children...Sorry, but I honestly think it is better for the child to have been killed quickly when they first went missing, and to now be at peace with no more suffering than to be tortured for years. Very few missing children are found alive; I think that most of the ones that are kept alive are killed when they are no longer "useful".