Zella
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I was impressed with the 5-weeks of meal prepping she did for him when she was going to be gone. That was really thoughtful. I do one-week at the time and it can be quite a chore, though it does make things so much easier during the week. I'd probably have told him, "I'll do enough for you to have some stuff, but you're on your own for other days."I noticed their schedules according to her FB were insane!
Last days of April New Orleans
May 8 - she posted she was thinking about trying to get pregnant
June 11 pregnancy announcement she said she got pregnant on post May 8 ( which makes CW comments make sense it was first try)
June 19 ultrasound (imo this seems soon unless health worries bc of her Lupus)
June 21-26 San Diego with Chris
June 26 got home left 12 hrs later for NC
8-8 got home from NC had told brother sex of baby name Rico
8-10 Gone to Denver
8-13 .....arrived home
I can’t find Dates of HMO docs signed to add to this there was mother’s day , Father’s Day , some birthdays .
IMO she was a rockstar ! I’m looking at her meal prepping and doing her business and a perfectly clean home ! She said she was OCD order came easy for her . IMO it may not for Chris working 40 hours a week , taking more duties with the kids and home . IMO he may have thought this job would allow her to stay at home bc of her lupus and be with kids and now money is still tight and they never see each other and he is super stressed bc he can’t do what she makes look easy. It will be telling when affairs started . He wasn’t wearing ring in pregnancy video . To me he was exhausted and numb . The baby now is his responsibility at home bc she is stellar and will be traveling for work . He mentions the high energy of his daughter , he is unraveling. He knows they have HOA and a trip to Cabo she just won . The affair was an escape that made him feel valued again plus looking better he want used to the attention he “had no game” . I am not sure of the trigger it could be a number of things but I feel he snapped this was not planned . I think it’s inconceivable what he did and inexcusable but everyone noticed a change I believe it wasn’t only the affair . IMO