I think it's clear that the image they had on social media wasn't all truth. We realize that she had a business and needed to tell a narrative in order to sell it.
And also, most people don't put the bad stuff on social media. And many people portray perfect lives when that's not reality.
Their lives obviously didn't end well. So clearly something was dreadfully wrong. It would be interesting to hear your perspective. Thus far verified insiders and friends in the media who've been interviewed have described extreme shock. Disbelief. Horror. And that Shanann was a warm, generous person and lived for her kids.
Chris is described as having been an involved family man and good dad. But some have described reports from Shanann of marital problems, that he had become distant and less responsive to the girls, and that she wondered if he might be cheating.
The arrest affidavit indicates he was, indeed, having an affair with a coworker. The investigators confirmed it.