Hoping this is the case...there is a certain "code" in these situations and conditions...and maybe if everyone "bands together" for justice; FO & HO will be arrested. Personally, I can't wait for this day to happen!!! jmo
His reported $50,000 income would not begin to cover expenses, even with GF paying for 4JC. No wonder he didn't want discovery.
Agreed.
Was MT involved in what happened to JD. IMO yes. Was MT in NC on the 24th? How much free time did MT have on the 24th? Did she need to pick up her daughter from school? We don't know if she was in NC but we do know she was in Farmington and we do know she was with FD on Albany Ave.
Whole situation of Farmington, Avon and Hartford was beyond strange with CCTV. There appeared to be zero organized efforts such as were seen in NC to gather up CCTV. Good hearted neighbors of FD volunteered their CCTV once they saw the news. I am honestly not sure what if anything Farmington/Avon/W. Windsor etc. LE did to assist the investigation.
The sociopath I know had a letter written from a psychologist stating that he is a normal person with no issues (paraphrasing). He held onto that letter for over 20 years, keeping track of it through many moves. One of the ONLY pieces of paperwork he kept track of. He was very proud of that letter. Well, that letter is history. Nobody else needs to be fooled by it. I also know someone, a mentally unstable and possibly suicidal person, who was easily able to fool a psychologist and be released immediately. Of the 2 cases I know of, the professionals are 0/2. Lots more background facts here that are irrefutable though and should help in getting to the truth as there are more facts than just self-reported. IMO.
He fought discovery with everything he had in Family Court and Civil Court.
The nanny kept her car with her and did not go to the house on the 24th until after she let LE into the home, according to media accounts. The t-shirt had blood on it. It was discarded where it was IMO because FD thought it was the best way to keep it out of the hands of LE. I believe that garbage dump was intentionally planned by FD so that the bagged evidence would be destroyed at the dump before LE ever even knew it existed. The speed with which LE acted, including the execution of emergency warrants, is astounding. But for that quick action, critical evidence, like the t-shirt would have been gone. FD never counted on LE finding that evidence, which is why he placed it there. I continue to believe the t-shirt will have a tale to tell.
WIN-NING!!! Getting his possessions (the kids) back from GF, delusional thinking that they are untouchable. They hate being chased out of a place under duress. Even though it was in his best interest, NOBODY was going to force his hand like that, IMO. Really, what I really, really want to know, is if he got a sick feeling when he realized they had brought the phones to Albany Ave. Could he really be so stoopid not to know the implications of that? If he did realize the implications, I would pay good money to see him and MT freak out upon realization of their stupidity.
He is going to be convicted of first degree murder, unless there is something seriously wrong with the criminal justice system in CT. There may be more work to be done, but I have zero doubt FD murdered his wife. Yes, sometimes the guilty go free, however, I am compelled by my respect for our justice system to believe he will not be one of them.
Don't be despondent! I didn't mean to have that effect on anyone. I believe that LE has much more than shared. As Gitana, I believe, indicated, we already know about the evidence being very strong for tampering with evidence. If Fotis has to be tried for that, that alone can put him away for a good two years, which gives LE a great deal of flexibility for charging with some form(s) of murder. Fotis can push to have his trial within a year of being charged with a crime, but the charge can be made any time---there is no statute of limitations.
I for one have trouble imagining how any jury member will doubt for a second that Fotis killed Jennifer. If they doubt his doing it single-handedly, it doesn't exculpate him.
But, murderers do get off sometimes. If he is one of them, I can assure you that at the very least, the Farbers are going to pull his money from Greece into the pockets of lawyers in the US, and suck him dry of every asset he stole here.
Even more importantly, I believe in Gloria's wisdom in surrounding the children with resilience-building supports. I believe in her ability to surround them with a fantastic education and tools for putting it to use. These children, who have had a most unusual "poor little rich girl/poor little rich boy" (approximate quote of family member intended) of lives will be armed with the ability to make the world a better place. Maybe one of them will lead in DV as their MGM leads in Head Start. Maybe one of them will find a way to bring the ability to compete in sports such as skiing out of the "pay to play" world- and the child of the owner of one of the restaurants on Albany Avenue can access- and enjoy- the same coach Fotis abusively made his kids benefit from. Maybe one of them will go all in to Judaism, and create a faith-based place to heal from DV open to all. Maybe one of them will move to a resort town, and barely make enough from selling paintings and organic foods to pay the rent on the store front, but be a happy place for other poor little rich kids to build resiliency.
I do hope Fotis gets brought to justice, and there is no doubt in my mind he did it. If it is "only" civil justice, that is better than nothing. But it is even more important to me that the children he had with Jennifer have the opportunity to grow up and make the best of their nightmare --- this extraordinary version of an old misogynistic tune. If any of the Farber/Dulos children break a pattern for future generations, justice will be done.
- Five little people changing the world.
MOO MOO MOO
It was this income number being put into the court record along with the 'net worth' of $341,000 if I recall, that seriously had me questioning FD sanity in a serious way.
Maybe that is why the 'mug' shots looked as rough as they did? Keeping the phones on Albany is a real puzzler as they must have been waiting for a call about the children or something else important! Would SO love to see those call logs during this period for MT and FD!
100% agree. Those houses meant nothing to him IMO. They were a means to an end. Heck, look at them. Like FD, they may present well on the surface, but they are devoid of any warmth or feeling of family/comfort. They were a way for FD to "play at working" by appearing to be a successful contractor, all the while living iff the wealth of his in-laws.
IMO, FD was well aware of IRS consequences. Full (truthful) discovery in the divorce would have been a road map for the IRS. He had a very poor strategy. Perhaps, if he had not been such a @#$%, this would have been settled early on before the financial details were so glaring. But he just kept digging himself deeper and deeper. Backs up my earlier posts about how pragmatism is overruled by the opportunity to screw others into the ground. I have seen it in living color. Snatching defeat from the jaws of victory. IMO.
Agree with you about the tee shirt telling a tale! Wonder if it will be a master class in transfer DNA perhaps?
Replying to my own post, LOL! I think that running away after the murder would have defeated the purpose of the murder. The purpose of the murder was for life to go merrily on: get the kids, get more money/assets, break GF and get her attention off the funds owed to her, life would go on without that troublesome Gone Girl. I think he really did want her thought of as missing or else so much easier to leave her at Welles and obliterate the scene with bleach/other chemicals or set the house on fire than to go through all the motions like Albany Ave. IMO.
