Miss Muffet
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If he wants to hide an affair or an affiliation for prostitutes, I definitely think he paid $300 cash for the room. When you pay cash, you pay when you check in. I know this because I pay cash for hotel rooms as often as possible.I know there's "a little thing called cash" - do you think he went to this hotel and paid $300 for a room for 3 hours with cash - what, no paperwork? And usually you don't pay until you check out, in case you use the mini bar, movies...
You also went to into great detail about looking up your husband's bank and credit card statements. Oh, wait. Were you implying you think the wife knew where he was because she was looking at his bank statements and saw he was at the hotel. That theory wouldn't work because the hotel would not have told her what room he was in.My words were "he had to leave an electronic trail" and I meant that; he called his wife, he had to set the date up somehow, even if it was a girlfriend/boyfriend. Or I could get smart like you and say maybe he used a pigeon or something.
It's a statistical possibility. Check out the statistics on this FBI page.I worry about getting in trouble on here because so many times I think family is involved and I don't want to break the rules.
http://www.fbi.gov/about-us/cjis/uc...o-law-enforcement/expanded/expandhomicidemain
It says 53% are caused by someone the victim knows. Of that 53%, 24.8% were killed by family members.
◾In 2010, in incidents of murder for which the relationships of murder victims and offenders were known, 53.0 percent were killed by someone they knew (acquaintance, neighbor, friend, boyfriend, etc.); 24.8 percent of victims were slain by family members. The relationship of murder victims and offenders was unknown in 44.0 percent of murder and non-negligent manslaughter incidents in 2010.
I can't understand why you're so resistant to the idea he had a mistress or saw prostitutes. It doesn't necessarily exclude the possibility of family. It actually can provide motive, IMO.