Originally Posted by stmarysmead View Post
We lived for many years in a house on 15 acres of land. The original listing said that the home was "secluded but close to everything." That's exactly what we loved about it! Five minutes to all the shopping, but hidden in our own little woods.
My husband traveled often, so I spent my days and many nights alone in that house, after our children went off to school. I was never afraid. I adored that house. So did my husband and our family. We had great happiness there, wonderful memories. We had "country neighbors" of all demographics. My neighbor, a widower who lived on disability payments, grew tomatoes and left bushels by my door in season. In return, I made those tomatoes into quarts of soup and left them on his doorstep. He plowed me out when snow blocked our long drive.
I would NEVER buy that house today. Not in the world we live in now. There is too much hate, and envy, and easy criminality. There seems to be a mindset, as we see in this horror of a case, that if other people have material possessions and YOU DONT...that THEY have wronged YOU. So therefore brutality is acceptable, even understandable.
I live behind gates now. Everybody is the same.
This is NOT the way it's supposed to be. But I sleep peacefully at night.
I wish we could afford gates lol. I'm the opposite. I live in a neighborhood that's very quiet, houses very close. My husband is gone twice a week and I'm terrified. I put both daughters in my bed, lock my bedroom door, and keep a butcher knife near. My husband thinks I'm crazy, lol maybe I am, but that's just how I feel
Gabchar27 and stmarysmead, sadly there are no neighborhoods immune from violent crime; urban, suburban, or rural. In many of the cases that we have followed on WS, we often hear the statement, 'horrific crimes like this just doesn't happen in our safe little community/neighborhood'.. Guess, it is the same reasoning that people have about their house catching fire; my neighbor's house may burn, but not mine.. Imo, although Savvas-Savopoulos, was safety conscientious, diligent, and very well prepared; martial arts trained, had a firearm/s, and home security alarm protection. Although prepared, he likely never dreamed that his family would face the tragic nightmare scenario of darkness and evil that they endured..
‘A little piece of our hearts are gone’
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http://www.washingtonpost.com/local...5e5e24-0545-11e5-bc72-f3e16bf50bb6_story.html
Savvas and Amy Savopoulos cheered their 10-year-old son, Philip, in early May as he indulged an obsession with racing go-karts. Around the same time, Philip and his two teenage sisters cuddled up together to watch “Finding Nemo.”
On Mother’s Day, Amy Savopoulos received a Facebook message from one of her girls: “You are so tolerant and understanding. Thank you for always being there when I need you.” The mother replied her daughter was “pure sunshine.”
They were the kind of tranquil, joyful and ordinary moments that a close-knit family takes for granted. They would be among the last shared by the Savopoulos clan.
Four days after the Facebook messages on May 14, the family’s stately home in one of D.C.’s most expensive neighborhoods was torched. The bodies of Savvas, Amy, Philip and their housekeeper, Veralicia Figueroa, 57, were found inside. They had been beaten and stabbed.