Between my ex-husband, my parents and my oldest daughter I should be sitting in a rubber room with my finger up my nose eating twinkies stuffed with drugs...LOL
Years ago when I was in counseling she told me she was surprised how well adjusted I was. I can relate to CA in respect to having a daughter who isn't wound too tight. I love all three of my kids and would do almost anything for them but there is a line that shouldn't be crossed. Someone asked who this imaginary person that GA thinks "possibly" had helped FCA. Who in the A family has no lines drawn besides FCA?
As a mother with a problem child, thats putting it mildly, when she was younger I knew who her friends were. They cared about her and actually offered to report to me if they saw something they thought I should know. When she was older, had her son and was living with me I had phone numbers. I knew who watched my grandson and where they lived. My daughter never hurt anyone, never stole anything but I knew her character better than anyone because I paid attention. Why did CA not know any friends, nannys phone number, address..nothing. It seemed FCA had to call in to report where she was, what she was doing and what time she would be home. Why did CA not investigate anything that was going on? What planet was she living on when all this money went missing, why did she not ask questions. It seems maybe FCA had been a problem before this, maybe CA was used to sticking her head in the sand, maybe FCA had worn her down to the point of surrender..who knows. Maybe CA thought the stolen money was payment somehow to keep FCA "happy". We know what she does when shes not happy. I still think those computer searches were made for not only Caylee but GA & CA. Someones very good post pointed out the effect killing Caylee and getting away with it might have on FCA and I agree. Once a person crosses that line IMO..there's no going back. Once a person takes another life I think it "goes to their head". I really believe FCA thinks she is "untouchable". Once her probation is over and this is all a bad dream to her, she will have to find a way to make a living. We know she doesn't believe in working for her money, she will go back to her old ways. None of what she has gone through is teaching anything but that!
My daughter is 30 years old and still going to school to become a counsler. You would think she should be good at making wise choices for herself..nope. I have watched her time and time again destroy her life. She was molested by a family member at a very young age and received alot of counseling but she has refused to this day to talk to me about it. Although at times we have been close, she harbors alot of hatred towards me which I am still not sure why. I know how a child can try to manipulate a mother for the guilt you feel that you didn't protect your child from harm. I was a very watchful parent but never saw the signs. Thankfully it was a short lived contact but it still did damage. It's possible FCA was molested by someone, she sure shows the signs.
I believe if CA had told the truth about what happened with FCA, we would be viewing CA as a victim. Her attempt to prove her daughter innocent to the world and herself has done nothing but cause her more pain and public outrage at her casual comments pertaining to Caylee.