Totally out of my hat, pulling things out of the air, watching waaaay too much Dateline and 20/20. (shaking fist in jest at youtube via roku) What if a man were pressured to commit murder because his spouse had harbored ill feelings for 24 years for whatever MS did or did not to her relative (or to her).
Maybe it all just came to a head when MS showed up at their wedding. Or, maybe she felt so disrespected by TS because she didn't attend and thought TS was being snobby. ALL MAKING THIS UP OUT OF MY HEAD - strange things happen in real life - things we would
never believe were true and might actually scoff at if we read them in a novel or saw them in a movie. One problem with anyone killing the loved one, but leaving alive the one whose life they're trying to ruin is that it's never just about that single target. The children, parents, siblings and loving friends all suffer in addition to the original target of the living spouse.
There's been conversation regarding possible envy enough to murder TS, maybe the envy would come from a spouse not from the actual killer. "Why should they have such a good life when I've had such tragedy?"
I hate even writing that when I think of the incredible tragedies and loss she's suffered and the most significant one right before her wedding, and now the arrest of her husband. I can't even imagine what she's thinking or feeling and I hope she's got support and is getting professional help because this truly is more than most people could bear.