And probably the most damning - to this day there has been no plea for Caylees safe return, no outcry for justice, no demand to find a murderer. And it is too late now, the public realilzed this a long time ago. The defense cannot spin this issue either, it is what it is. The story is right out of the Twilight Zone.
But hey, they handed out flyers outside of a Publix. That lasted at least a day.
The emotional dynamics in this case mystify me. KC waited 31 days to report Caylee missing. Obviously the biggest initial red flag, but it took 31 days for CA to finally call LE. I have no doubt G and C loved Caylee, but this was a child that lived with them, and from all reports it seemed as though CA was the parent in the equation. They were all very aware of KC's deception, the thefts, etc.
I'm not a giant thieving liar, but if I couldn't produce my boys to their grandmother after 31 days, all while making excuses as to their whereabouts? My mom would freak out, and I don't even live with my parents! Why would she worry? Because she knows my patterns. We make plans to meet at the playground, and when I call, I let my toddler talk to her as well. My mom isn't the intrusive type, but if we lived in her house and she never saw my sons? I mean, the road to denial both intersects with and parallels Hopespring Dr.
I've met and talked with the As, and found them to be very nice people. The circumstances of our meeting was awkward, but G in particular was open and kind.
All that to say is the lack of Ronald Cummingsesque emotion has always been jarring to me, and that I think the As know that Caylee died at KC's hand and that it wasn't an accident. I think there is blame passed around and self-recrimination in the family, maybe stemming back to the KC and CA fight that one night. My belief is that KC had the perfect opportunity. She got in an awful fight with her mom, and a result of that fight was her telling her mother that she wouldn't see Caylee again. Given the spec regarding custody, etc, it was the perfect context in which to make Caylee disappear for good. CA could just believe KC was pouting and keeping Caylee away, not knowing the permanence of KC's actions. Meanwhile, it served KC's dual purpose of allowing the freedom of a child-free and empowered existence.
Meanwhile, CA was left to post angrily bewildered MySpace messages and to tiptoe around KC. Because maybe if she played it cool, KC would bring Caylee home to them and her playhouse and her dolls.
All that to say that I not only think it was premeditated, it was planned in such a way to give KC the ultimate control. Get rid of a liability and achieve power while doing it. Even in jail, she still has power over them. She'll have that power until they decide they can walk away.
The skull imagery and her actions after the fact disturb me on a whole other level. Going to Blockbuster and partying might speak to antisocial personality disorder, but actively searching out pictures of skulls and skeletons? I don't know what that means. What it does tell me is that I can picture that same person killing their daughter with intent. Something is definitely broken in there.