I am so confused, but also very skeptical about everything we've been told, by every party. I've never been able to reconcile the fact that at one time, the parents said they never saw anything inappropriate between JG & DA. Then, they said JG was the first person they thought of when DA went missing. And at some point, they said that JG was kicked out of the house because of the inappropriate relationship. Which is the truth? Then we have the oil. Somewhere upthread someone said the oil is a red herring, and I agree. I don't believe anything about the oil. And I don't know why (motivation) anyone would have made it up, but it just sounds unreal. I also can't figure out how DA could have disappeared so quickly after the mom covered her with a blanket, and nothing was heard by anyone in the home. I wonder if because they are part of an undocumented population, the family has been afraid and has been trying to protect themselves by anticipating what they think might look like bad parenting, and creating stories to counter those suspicions. To be clear, I'm saying that the parents aren't involved in the disappearance, but perhaps they weren't home yet, perhaps they allowed JG to come visit DA, or something else entirely that they are afraid would get them into trouble. Because none of this makes sense. And on top of that, if police told me that they weren't going to look for my baby girl anymore, I'd go ballistic. I cannot imagine how that mother feels. One more thing. I worry that JG will never talk, now that he is in jail. He has no motivation. They won't let him off for the child *advertiser censored*, so he is going to serve time, most likely. So why admit to something even worse? When Haleigh Cummings went missing, it was after Misty & Ron were jailed on drug charges that all talk stopped. Why? IMO, because why admit to killing someone when you could get less time by just waiting out your sentence? There was no incentive to cooperate once they knew they were stuck in jail anyway. Again, IMO.