I think
I can agree with most that you've said,
however I think it is of no small significance that what you have
pertinently mentioned here represent only one side of the story, which is
IMO, the beginning, not the middle and surely not the end of a much more balanced narrative.
Let me explain that which is response to only few of your assertions and only insofar that it serves to represent my point:
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... I'm not disparaging the fact that he is interested in this hobby, or that he may spend a large amount of money on it but we can look at what we know in regards to that ..."
Ok, what do
we know in regard to your statement that is factual here, and I'm using the adjective
factual only in so far that you've used the subject pronoun "
we".
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...DSJr was not always forthcoming with child support payments. This is documented on the Orange County Clerk site. Michelle had to go through hoops on more than one occasion to get support for the children"
True, but how many payments did he miss? What were the circumstances surrounding it? Did he make up those payments? Were there any disputes? How that compares to other similar circumstances with other parents? What is the relationship of it to Michelle's disappearance that can be used in a court of law? And I could go on ... ultimately, we know that whatever the issue might have been with the support payments that they were either not a factor or not enough of a factor to deny Dale custody of his children, as finding of facts by a a court of law, and that needs to be significant in it's own right.
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... And lets not forget that this was the first and I believe only time that they went to one of these conventions together. And he left her there with no way home. So obviously the hobby was not healthy for the relationship ..."
Not so obvious, the relationship was not healthy to begin with regardless of the convention, usually fights between couples are not restricted to a particular location or activity, and we know
factually that their relationship could be described as
tumultuous long before and after after a particular conventions.
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... According to his statistics in 501st events attended, DSJr attended one charity event in five years ..."
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... just wanted to make it clear so we don't confuse him with someone who is devoted to charitable work ..."
True but I haven't seen anyone here praise Dale personally for any philanthropic activities, on the other side of the coin, he did attend 1 such an event in 5 years, while there are lots of people who attended none in the same 5 years span, and that is what it is and nothing more then that.
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.. DSJr is a three time convicted felon for assault and battery. The records are clear and available once again on the Orange County Clerk site ..."
True, but how severe is such a record among all possible felonies, does it make him a career criminal? [If so how? when did those felonies take place? How old was he at the time of those felonies? How long a time has passed since Dale has gotten in trouble with the law prior to this case? And
most importantly, how does it relate directly to Michelle's disappearance? Something that a prosecution would have to establish with
real evidence or such a record would not be admissible in court as being of no particular relevance to the felony alleged and quite possibly highly prejudicial to a jury.
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... It's kind of unnerving to know that all these people, dressed up in costume, could be convicted felons ..."
True, I have the same concern on Halloween. Trick or Treat could be emotionally exhausting to me, no pun intended ... well ... may be just a little
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...The PC episode that was aired the day she disappeared was based on an incident that occurred during a convention for this hobby. It may or may not be relevant but it is the reason why this hobby has been discussed so often in this case."
I simply disagree here.
All JMO