Hi guys! I've followed this case and posted a bit. I've been a member here since 2005-over 12 years now! I've followed tons and tons of cases and I have noticed a trend in cases where a family member comes to WS and posts.
At first, members are thrilled to have a case insider posting, and they ask lots of questions and try to provide a lot of support. However, as time goes on, and the missing person isn't found, there tends to be inconsistencies that appear between media, LE, and family member. Even sometimes between what the family member has stated before and what they later state. Then WS members begin to question the family member, and some treat them dismissively and even with hostility.
Inevitably, once the missing person is found, it turns out that the family member was doing their best to relay info as best they were able and never tried to mislead or provide misinformation. Then members are supportive again.
I see this cycle happening in this case, and I would love to put a stop to it. Family members of the missing are dealing with enormous amounts of stress, as well as varying info from friends, other family members, LE, and the media. They don't have a crystal ball to see into their loved one's mind, and I'm sure they have just as many questions as we do. Perhaps we could grill subie a bit less about the exact timeline, which can change every day based on new info he and LE are receiving, and accept that he's doing all he can. There is probably a lot of info he's not being told, and maybe info he's been told not to share. I am certain he is not in any way trying to confuse. He is doing us a favor by being here in a stressful time and owes us nothing.
Just a friendly reminder from someone who has been around the block hundreds of times.