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Thanks so much for posting these …. Appreciated!!!
Thanks so much for posting these …. Appreciated!!!
Yeah, if they haven't really got any evidence they are sure pumping everyone up, expecting some quick resolution. I posted yesterday that the news releases about "evidence" could be a not-so-subtle hint to someone that it might go easier for them to cooperate.No, sadly, you are not the only one …..
I just have a feeling from the wording that has been used, that they have found “something” in the way of evidence….
IMO
Wow, in that video linked above, Quinton's grandma and the babysitter really go at it. It's disturbing to say the least. I think it's also very telling that the babysitter said she had indeed called CPS in the past as had other neighbors.
MOO
I’ve been on fb, twitter, tiktok, big media outlets and Ive definitely seen some things change regarding the timeline and who was in the house, text message exchanges etc . The speculation on YT is out of hand forsure. I only trust LE with the facts. Just wishing upon a star this sweet baby comes backI've seen the brother mentioned here (meaning uncle, son of GMA, brother of young mother), but just as an inhabitant. I don't remember seeing him listed as being "there" that night. I can't block anyone, lol, just that being around for awhile I myself have frequently been asked for proof. It's better in the long run, just look at FB and YT with all the salacious rumors on every case that happens.
Septic tank?I'm guessing that, at least by today, the K-9's being used will include cadaver dogs. I cannot fathom this having a good ending, but I pray that today will be the day little Quinton is found. JMO
I haven't been able to follow that closely.Not sure if posted. Babysitter and GM video
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WSAV News 3 On Your Side
WSAV obtained video of a heated exchange between Quinton Simon’s grandmother and his babysitter.www.facebook.com
I feel certain that if they are searching the family property again, with what I think we can safely assume are cadaver dogs, LE are not expecting to find a missing toddler, alive. I do believe that something they have found has brought them back with dogs today, so I am hopeful that this will be the day little Quinton is found, and if an arrest is not made before then, I expect there will be at least one, very soon after. JMOAm I the only one that thinks they are looking for a deceased Q on the family property? Perhaps they have been able to determine from cell pings that bio mom and boyfriend never left the residence??
Because she mistook the baby sitter's efforts at organizing a prayer circle as being a memorial occasion, with the implication that the baby is dead. In part, the way I understood it.I haven't been able to follow that closely.
Can someone give the short version on why the grandmother is flipping out on the babysitter?
grandmother seems very upset that sitter was organizing a "memorial" gathering for lil Q. IMO gma felt sitter was our of line organizing events, an overstep, and then to call it a "memorial" suggests that Q is dead, in gma's mind and I think gma took quite a bit of offense at that.I haven't been able to follow that closely.
Can someone give the short version on why the grandmother is flipping out on the babysitter?
I can understand Gma being upset at a "memorial" being planned as it does indeed suggest Q is deceased. Perhaps some type of prayer vigil or something of that sort would be more appropriate at this time.grandmother seems very upset that sitter was organizing a "memorial" gathering for lil Q. IMO gma felt sitter was our of line organizing events, an overstep, and then to call it a "memorial" suggests that Q is dead, in gma's mind and I think gma took quite a bit of offense at that.
The rest was just basic finger pointing between two women I believe know and love Q best. I think there are probably lots of guilty feelings of coulda shoulda woulda what if being felt by both women. Rather than letting their concern for Q join them in a common goal they have decided to play "who's fault is this"
Not a good look for either JMO. <modsnip> I do not doubt she loves Q and Z. Ugly confrontation all around MOO
We discussed this earlier and I still for the life of me can't figure out why (if there is a septic tank) it hasn't been pumped. Many of us have followed cases in which a child has been found in a septic tank.Septic tank?
I think Gma is an emotional wreck right now. I can empathize with her less-than-poised outburst.I can understand Gma being upset at a "memorial" being planned as it does indeed suggest Q is deceased. Perhaps some type of prayer vigil or something of that sort would be more appropriate at this time.
In many states foster children can be placed with relatives or non relatives (family friends, etc.) And still be in the foster care system/ considered foster children. Kinship care is often times preferred over foster care. In Florida relative caregivers are subject to home studies, background checks, home visits (though less frequently than foster parents), and have to update case workers with doctor's visits, school records, etc. The relative caregivers don't need to take the required foster parent classes in some states. The child is considered a foster child until permanency is established through adoption or reunification. MOO/YMMV
We discussed this earlier and I still for the life of me can't figure out why (if there is a septic tank) it hasn't been pumped. Many of us have followed cases in which a child has been found in a septic tank.
Does anyone familiar with the area know if they use septic tanks in this area?
Oh wow. I would think they searched the Well... if it is visible. Hoping they searched the tank as well, but some people were saying you might be able to see signs that it had been disturbed.View attachment 372720
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The babysitter has appeared on a few YouTube videos giving interviews. This could be upsetting to the grandparents and hurtful to the investigation. I'm surprised that LE hasn't stepped in. Someone could be hurt when these tempers are flaring.Seeing her get all up into the babysitter's personal space was just creepy. I thought 100% she was about to pop her one. I understand raw emotions but that's just scary as heck to live with someone that can flip like that. Kids don't deserve to be around that kind of thing, ever.
jmo
Thank you for sharing.That's not accurate. Children can be placed in the direct custody of a relative, but that is not Foster Care. You are correct in that there are a variety of kinship custody arrangements, but they do not meet the federal definition of Foster Care. It makes a specific impact in how expenditures are funded, and Foster Care payments cannot be made on behalf of any child not in the custody of the respective Department. The local district cannot act on behalf of the child, they cannot authorize medical care, and do not have the authority to move a child to a different placement without first petitioning to bring that child into LDSS custody. Maybe colloquially these are referred to as "Foster Care", but semantics really do matter in the big picture.
States have different public assistance grants available to non-parent caretakers, and children who are placed in the direct custody of a relative most likely qualify for those benefits (but keep in mind that the child's biological parent in the home impacts the child's eligibility for those payments), but again it is not Foster Care.
You are also correct in that these direct custody arrangements do require vetting the relatives, but not to the same degree as certifying the individual as a foster parent. Some sort of Preventive/Protective services are provided with those cases, and would involve casework contacts in accordance with that state's practice.
Although I am in NY, I have worked for DSS for almost 34 years. In my district, in addition to other things, I am responsible for all Foster Care and Adoption/KinGap case payments, tapping into state/federal funding streams, and case maintenance for Preventive cases with those direct custody arrangements. I didn't have a whole lot of time to delve into GA statutes, but am attaching the link for anyone up for some light reading...
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