I've been in and out of lurking, LOL...just need to speak my mind, if I may.
I began reading posts/blogs about this case around spring 2009 because I was appalled by NG continually stating, "Ronald Cummings is innocent."
There is no way Ronald Cummings is innocent, IMO. Even if he was at work and had nothing directly to do with what happened that night in February 2009, Ron was ultimately responsible for keeping Haleigh safe. IMO, he failed miserably.
Misty was Ron's plaything at the time; he took whatever he could get from her and that unfortunately included child care, if one can call it "care." Misty herself was a child, and anyone with even one functioning brain cell could have seen she was not a good candidate to care for small children for any duration of time that exceeded her attention span.
Ronald Cummings should have seen to it that his children had proper care while he was at work! If he could not find a babysitter or child care center for the night shift, he should have stayed on the day shift. Maybe it was inconvenient, maybe it was not something he wanted, but it was necessary for the welfare of his children, IMO. I cannot speak for Ron's employer but most employer's will accommodate a single parent when scheduling work hours, if at all possible.
IIRC, the custody judge was assured that TN was willing and available to assist Ron with the children, and that they would be in her care during his work hours. If this was the agreement, it should have been followed. If it became inconvenient at some point, other arrangement needed to be made to ensure proper care for the children. So, Ronald Cummings is not innocent. Maybe he even realizes this; we may never know for sure.
I have seen cases where a child is left by its mother in the care of a boyfriend or husband who is known to be violent, a druggie or a sexual offender, registered or not. In those cases the mother is always taken to task, berated up one side and down the other and pronounced just as guilty as the perp for leaving her child with a dangerous or incompetent individual. So, why is Ronald Cummings not held to the same standards?
I am tired of hearing how Ron "wuz at werk" and that proves he is innocent. Well, it doesn't prove any such thing, IMO. Firstly, I have seen no proof of Ron's work hours. Secondly, Ron left his children basically unattended when he left them with a known drug user who was no more than a child herself.
As for Misty, I believe she was often controlled by RC, but I also believe she could stand up for herself when she really wanted to. She did her own thing at times regardless of what RC thought about it; she would just stay away until he had a chance to cool off.
Misty claims she went to sleep that night--either because she was under the influence of drugs or because she was just exhausted--and did not witness what happened to Haleigh. While I believe this is a [remote] possibility, I do not believe it exonerates her. Misty admits to smoking pot with Tommy early in the evening and, IMO, a person left solely in charge of small children should think twice about such activity. However, I have to consider Misty's limited capacity to think, period...and when I do that I can cut her a little slack on how she behaved that evening and into the first day or so following Haleigh's disappearance. She appeared at the time to be well under the control of RC, perhaps as guided by TN, and may have been confused and scared to the point of really believing they had her best interests at heart, and that they would always support her and be there for her.
Now, with the passage of time, Misty should know the score. I can no longer cut her any slack. If she knows more than she has told--and I believe she does--she needs to wise up and tell all. Whether or not she will be believed at this point I cannot say, but Misty should take the high road and say what needs to be said. I would like to see some evidence that Misty cares--about Haleigh and about herself. However, if Misty does not speak, I will have no choice but to believe her guilty, to some degree, of Haleigh's demise.
JMO.