I don’t think it was the act of sexual intercourse itself that satisfied/gratified him, and IMO I don’t think he engaged in that with his victims (or at least most of them). What made his clock tick was much more sadistic and sinister, basically the things you referenced are what probably did it for him. Territory I don’t think I want to try to even start to delve into!
There are a brother of RH and two sisters, afaik.
But given what we’re learning about his penchant for torture, maybe he was more than happy to have a partner to witness what he did to JB, the “last to be with” Sandra.
Alone the bruised neck points to him. AND the aviator glasses. MOOAll speculation, imo, fwiw
Did RH ever mention condoms?
Did he adjust his methods of killing and disposing of victims (Asian male?) to accommodate any fears he may have had regarding HIV/STDs?
Did he worry about passing anything on to those close to him?
Did he find a way to check prospective victims health records?
When he taunted family members of his victims, he referred to their loved ones with that nasty old-fashioned word, who..s, was he ever taunted for his ironically descriptive name?
Apr 16, 1990 Heidi Evans rbbm
''NEW YORK - A study that tested nearly 950 New York City streetwalkers found that a third of them were carrying the AIDS virus, one of the highest rates of infection ever found among U.S. prostitutes.
The nine-month study, paid for by the state Health Department and the federal Centers for Disease Control, tested streetwalkers in 18 neighborhoods in the five boroughs between April and December of last year.''
2008 By Patricia Fieldsteel rbbm
With the working girls in the darkest days of AIDS | amNewYork
During the 1980s, I worked the prostitute strolls in all five boroughs of New York. Three nights a week and occasionally during the day, I dispensedwww.amny.com
''Most of the girls (a term they preferred to “women”) worked the Lower East Side around Allen and Delancey. Many were well educated; they were also among the dirtiest and most degraded of the working girls. Diana had been an upper-class British vet, specializing in horses. Another had been a dentist. Julie, a petite redhead, had as identification a New York Public Library card. She got tested but refused to learn her results. Chiara came from a wealthy Milanese family and had battled severe anorexia and bulimia for more than 10 years. She’d sought treatment in a New York City eating disorders hospital where another patient had told her heroin stopped bulimia. Nothing, she said, was worse than the hell of bulimia, not even ending up homeless, hooking to pay for her next fix. In early 1990, Julie disappeared. Then others. Not unusual. Sometime in 1991, the girls on the Lower East Side started whispering about a pervert who killed. Street prostitutes are murdered all the time.
During the winter of 1989, a working girl entered the van on Broadway in the 90s. Trembling, she showed me her savagely bruised neck and pointed to a collegiate-looking guy in aviator glasses: “He tried to strangle me during sex. He’s tried on other girls, too.”
Bingo, started looking around for a "Julie", but probably not her real name..
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people forget that the assault is not about sexual gratification with a partner. it's about domination and power. I really don't want to get to graphic with details, but this is all in line with torso/bondage psych, and large component of that is lack of penetrative and (as delicately as I can put this) "self-gratification" ending with them leaving the result of that ON the victim. it's about power-shame dynamic, humiliation, and disrespect. if this is the angle, prevailing established psychology would lead me to believe that there significant early childhood abuse more than likely at the hands of his parent or other parental figure. maybe it was his dad in that very same workshop. he's recreating something over and over and trying to perfect it for a reason.
There is a Bail Application dated July 14. 2023 and one from the other day. Unless the info you want is in one of those documents then we have to wait for trial or a new document to be released.
In the bail document, from the other day I thought it said RH documented the days of when "wife in VT" like a calendar (or something like that).
Yes that is correct. I seem to also recall pictures showing the heavy cuts in the lower vertical sides of the tub wall. That topic reminds me of a recent story told of an older case in the UK or Scotland IIRC. It was a keen and alert plumber that brought to LE authorities problems with the plumbing, clogged and improper draining pipes, septic, and sewer as the killer had been unsuccessfully flushing many items to the drain. (That case might have been of Dennis Nilsen in UK I believe. And it seems he was of Scottish origin.) MOO
Why?
I’m not sure there was ever a hunky-dory side to living with RH. An addict is an addict. He is/was allegedly addicted to killing, torture, presumably sex, hoarding (?), and maybe more. But addicts, no matter what their poison, have addict personalities — issues with codependency, boundaries, denial, truth, control, dysfunctional relationships, etc. Stuff not conducive to a healthy family dynamics and unconditional love. This said many addicts are high functioning — hold a responsible job, make a lot of money, have dinner with the family every night — but In my experience living among them, high functioning or not, addicts have addict personalities! OMO.
Children of addicts are usually “adult children” (look up ACOA) and I mean they have to become adults in the family system while they are still children because the adults aren’t functioning in the position of adult.
While it may not be an accurate appraisal, IMO the body language, facial affect, dress, personal hygiene, and general vibe I get from sp0u$e is someone who has not been content or fulfilled for some time (added: also appears as someone with own issues)I wonder if the entire family ever took vacations together or did m0m and k1d$ need breaks from dynamics with other parent? Or was it expected/ suggested they leave periodically?
My point is whether or not everyone in small house was aware of d@d’s misdeeds, IMO they were still living with an addict and all that means.
MOO. MOO.
Wondering about the long term effects on elementary kids 'getting the strap' in school in front of both boys and girls, then maybe going home to more of the same? speculation, imo.
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All speculation, imo, fwiw
Did RH ever mention condoms?
Did he adjust his methods of killing and disposing of victims (Asian male?) to accommodate any fears he may have had regarding HIV/STDs?
Did he worry about passing anything on to those close to him?
Did he find a way to check prospective victims health records?
When he taunted family members of his victims, he referred to their loved ones with that nasty old-fashioned word, who..s, was he ever taunted for his ironically descriptive name?
Apr 16, 1990 Heidi Evans rbbm
''NEW YORK - A study that tested nearly 950 New York City streetwalkers found that a third of them were carrying the AIDS virus, one of the highest rates of infection ever found among U.S. prostitutes.
The nine-month study, paid for by the state Health Department and the federal Centers for Disease Control, tested streetwalkers in 18 neighborhoods in the five boroughs between April and December of last year.''
2008 By Patricia Fieldsteel rbbmWith the working girls in the darkest days of AIDS | amNewYork
During the 1980s, I worked the prostitute strolls in all five boroughs of New York. Three nights a week and occasionally during the day, I dispensed
''Most of the girls (a term they preferred to “women”) worked the Lower East Side around Allen and Delancey. Many were well educated; they were also among the dirtiest and most degraded of the working girls. Diana had been an upper-class British vet, specializing in horses. Another had been a dentist. Julie, a petite redhead, had as identification a New York Public Library card. She got tested but refused to learn her results. Chiara came from a wealthy Milanese family and had battled severe anorexia and bulimia for more than 10 years. She’d sought treatment in a New York City eating disorders hospital where another patient had told her heroin stopped bulimia. Nothing, she said, was worse than the hell of bulimia, not even ending up homeless, hooking to pay for her next fix. In early 1990, Julie disappeared. Then others. Not unusual. Sometime in 1991, the girls on the Lower East Side started whispering about a pervert who killed. Street prostitutes are murdered all the time.
During the winter of 1989, a working girl entered the van on Broadway in the 90s. Trembling, she showed me her savagely bruised neck and pointed to a collegiate-looking guy in aviator glasses: “He tried to strangle me during sex. He’s tried on other girls, too.”
nypost.com
He does look very awkward?Bingo, started looking around for a "Julie", but probably not her real name..
View attachment 508812Gilgo Beach murder suspect Rex Heuermann seen standing awkwardly in resurfaced high school drama club photo
Alleged Gilgo Beach serial killer Rex Heuermann stood awkwardly for an Alfred Berner High School drama club photo.
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curious if he ever revisited the dumping sites afterward.
