Was just thinking how rough a month this must be for the Elvis family.... A Daddy's day without his daughter, another court date on the twenty-seventh, and Heather's 21st birthday, which would have been a milestone day. She would legally have become an adult. Heather's full adult life was totally stolen from her and all those who love her. Each person on earth is here for a unique and important reason. The contribution Heather would have made will never be actualized. The world will be different now because she is no longer here. The loss of a human being creates a void in this life that never can be filled in the same way. it impacts all of us. Maybe she was to save a life, be an advocate for wonderful causes, or gift this world with another human life-we will never know, and we all miss out. Even if she helped with one woman's positive image by working her artistry at the beauty salon, it would have been life changing for someone. What a shame that some people are here not to build, but to destroy. With each murder that takes place, a part of ourselves is also changed,violated, taken.
I am here for a couple of reasons. First, because my family vacationed in Myrtle Beach with me and my two sisters since 1963. A lot of cherished memories were created there. Only one sister survives. Part of remembering my sister has a lot to do with all the fun we had in MB together.I can still see my sister in my mind's eye laughing and enjoying the breaking surf. Second, I had been a lurker on websleuths going back many years. When I heard of Heather's case, I had first thought that maybe there was a serial killer and wanted to research if there were ties to Brittanee's Drexel and other missing persons in the area. Third, to offer any input that may help the case, and last, and most important to me is that coming on Heather's threads is my way of holding vigil with Heather's family.
It is not hard to understand why this case makes no sense at times, but it is impossible to figure out at this point - kind of like solving a math problem when a variable is missing. Until that information is revealed, we are going to feel uncertain about what really happened to Heather. In the meantime, it makes me feel better to share some time and ideas with like-minded people who care about Heather (and others) who are missing or worse. I would be so blessed and less alone if it were my child that was gone and she was remembered daily here. I truly trust that the caring we put forth can ease a grieving family.