Dang right she is following his instruction. He's telling her just how to be politically correct. Too bad you can/see read right through her.
During the first 31 days Caylee was missing, she wasn't worried about reminding anyone that "we still have a missing child". It was all about her! IF, and that's a mighty big IF, Caylee was kidnapped, Casey let very valuable time slip away by not doing anything during the first month. Oh let us not forget, her "investigation" that was underway at Fusian. I'm sorry, I almost forgot. <insert sarcasm and eyeroll>
What I can't get past is she still didn't report Caylee missing - her mother (Cindy) did - and now she wants to remind us that Caylee is missing. GMAB! If she would have done what she needed to do in the beginning, then she may not be where she is today. She has no one to blame but herself at this point. I may be wrong, but they would have to prove it to me for me to believe otherwise. JMHO of course!