Wow, what a turn. This whole thing is beyond what I could have thought up. Incredible. I, too, am trying so hard to not get ahead of the media. Just awful. RIP Heidi, and thank gosh that precious baby is alive!
Actually when Heidi, and Margo first went missing the first thought I had that it would likely be someone who had lured or abducted them both in order to have Margo.
I also felt if they were ever found Heidi would be dead because that is the only way for the offender to get Margo.
I was dumbfounded why the majority only had one possibility they would ever consider when tragically we have seen these kind of cases happen before.
All the information released by LE convinced me they felt her offender had taken her from her home. I heard nothing coming from LE that showed they suspected her fiancee's involvement. My heart breaks for him. Even though he has little miracle Margo he nor Margo will ever have her back to see her grow up.
Sadly, we have gone down this same dangerous road before too many times of grieving family members being falsely accused by the internet masses.. who did not even know them personally nor had any facts to support any of the very hurtful unfounded accusations.
How many times does it have to happen to innocent family members to realize facts, and evidence are required before doing so? Sigh.
It's sad Tricia's reminder was ignored by many causing our mods to have to shutdown threads in order to keep cleaning them up.
This is another stark reminder that no one should ever be accused of any crime based on absolutely nothing.
There are around 3500 adult females murdered each year. Only 33% were killed by SOs.
Heidi's murder will be entered into the statistical data this year under the category where her offender was known to her under the classification of 'acquaintance, coworker, friend or neighbor' etc.
I posted early on I was keeping all possibilities open, but what really happened was at the top of my list. A child as young as little Margo could represent a healthy newborn to the offender. As much as I didnt want that to be the case, but all along it's what made the most logical sense to me anyway ...based on evidence we knew at the scene of their apartment.
What IS shocking about all of this to me is the murderer, and child kidnapper was known as a trusted friend. That truly is the ultimate betrayal to Heidi, Margo, her fiancee, and all of their family members.
May justice be harsh, and swift.
Jmho