Patty G
Retired WS Staff
Smoking is taking over this thread. :crazy:
Smoking is taking over this thread. :crazy:
Smoking is taking over this thread. :crazy:
The Weekend Today Show is covering Elizabeth and Lyric. Although nothing new, but at least they are still getting media coverage.
Smoking is taking over this thread. :crazy:
BBM
Almost $70 a carton???!!!!!!!!
When my husband quit, it was in part because getting cigarettes from the Mesquaki Settlement was getting too expensive at $11/carton.
I am so sorry cigarettes got you. I saw how my husband really wrestled with it (and still does to some extent). I almost feel guilty because I started smoking when I was 16 and quit cold turkey when I was 24 with no trouble at all. I just didn't want to smoke any more.
Of course, that wasn't my main addiction (food) and I have never gotten that addiction under control.
Even though people say cigarettes don't affect their decision making, in a sense, I think they do. My husband chose to have both of us go hungry at times so that he could smoke, even though I know he loves me and would give his life for me.
Other people let their craving for cigarettes lead them to take risks they would not ordinarily take (as you said above you were tempted to do last night).
And the mood swings, increased stress, inability to focus, etc, that happen to many smokers when cigarettes are withheld for too long are potentially able to influence decision making ability.
I think it's only to be expected that DC and MC apparently have problems staying sober. And, sadly, it would not surprise me if one or both of them relapses in the stress of what is going on.
If my husband felt a push all the time to smoke the next cigarette (many times while he was still smoking a cigarette!), then what they are feeling must by like having an elephant shoving against their backs.
I find it amazing the FBI is saying they think the girls are alive but that they are not getting full cooperation from family and close friends.
Seems one would cancel out the other.
Prayin they are right!!
Does that prevent, say, a baby sitter from picking the kids up at school? It seems to me like that would be a fairly common arrangement and if allowed, an easy way to have an informal caregiver do school pick ups.
It would be easy enough for a noncustodial parent to keep enrolling the child in school if there were some way for a designated person other than the legal guardian to pick up the child from school.
In Iowa, it's apparently not a big deal because I really do know a lot of people who have taken in their grandchildren or nieces/nephews or whatever without any court decree being involved.
What we do is on yearly erollment information papers, the parent/guardian can list any people that have their permission to pick up their child. When someone other than the parent does come to pick up a child, the person has to show a valid picture ID which is checked against the child's information on the computer system. If there is sill a question, the office personnel contacts the parent by phone. If the parent cannot be reached, the child stays at school.
If LE suspects that the girls were abducted by someone who knew DC or MC, then their refusal to cooperate (which may now be over, apparently; see link upthread) could make it more difficult to figure out just who the suspect is.
My impression is that the presser was throwing out red herrings (re: the family cooperation). I still think they were nabbed or lured by, obviously, someone who was on that bike trail after 12:15 and before 4:00...
I mentioned the man on the bike previously...but, response was that he is a known good community member, etc., as if there is no reason to look into him. Often that is the description of people living double lives, and there are numerous examples of this historically. This person frequents the area. This person does not appear athletic. This person lives in Waterloo. My belief is that this person needs to be thoroughly ruled out, but I'm not sure how. I really want to know that I'm barking up the wrong tree.
I would be looking in Waterloo. Lyric was in Waterloo when she was late...All of this is just my personal opinion.
Reasonable guess on Pic 5 would be a maintenance shed....lawnmowers, brush clearing equipment, what have you....
Could definitely be some dna on the energy drinks and beer. Who uses energy drinks and/or beer? Worth a swipe I'd think.