Hatfield
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I want to toss out a new theory that has been forming based on past couple days and the news conferences.
My older theory was:
Early on I was stuck on her leaving on her own because of the pressures of the upcoming wedding and what I perceived as her fear that the BF was going to propose to her and she may have felt pressure to get married and just had to get away. I wont post again the Dads comments and the joke the brother of the BF made regarding her marrying the BF but most know what I mean and have seen that in the news. IMO the pressure or fear she had about possible marriage to the BF was very real.
My new theory:
My theory changed because I cant see her putting everyone through this so long without calling her parents. So what if all that fear and pressure was still true and she confided in someone close to her about her concerns about the wedding trip. Now lets say this friend took it to heart and he felt compelled to "save her" from her situation.
Maybe her and her friend had even jokingly started plans for her to run away for a couple days but this friend gets so emotionally invested in being her hero that he doesnt take it as a joke and he puts his plan into action to "save her". He may have taken her and is not letting her leave. She may have not realized how this close friend was getting obsessed with her. He may be holding her and not letting her go or contact anyone.
And at the abduction time he took her she would have not known his intentions and would have let him in the front door. Either a ride to work or the night before to study with her. At that point he was still just a concerned friend to her. He could have blindsided her with his alterior motives.
Could something like that have happened here?
I actually hope so because it could mean she is still alive.
I want to toss out a new theory that has been forming based on past couple days and the news conferences.
My older theory was:
Early on I was stuck on her leaving on her own because of the pressures of the upcoming wedding and what I perceived as her fear that the BF was going to propose to her and she may have felt pressure to get married and just had to get away. I wont post again the Dads comments and the joke the brother of the BF made regarding her marrying the BF but most know what I mean and have seen that in the news. IMO the pressure or fear she had about possible marriage to the BF was very real.
My new theory:
My theory changed because I cant see her putting everyone through this so long without calling her parents. So what if all that fear and pressure was still true and she confided in someone close to her about her concerns about the wedding trip. Now lets say this friend took it to heart and he felt compelled to "save her" from her situation.
Maybe her and her friend had even jokingly started plans for her to run away for a couple days but this friend gets so emotionally invested in being her hero that he doesnt take it as a joke and he puts his plan into action to "save her". He may have taken her and is not letting her leave. She may have not realized how this close friend was getting obsessed with her. He may be holding her and not letting her go or contact anyone.
And at the abduction time he took her she would have not known his intentions and would have let him in the front door. Either a ride to work or the night before to study with her. At that point he was still just a concerned friend to her. He could have blindsided her with his alterior motives.
Could something like that have happened here?
I actually hope so because it could mean she is still alive.