Sounds to me like a pretty good life compared to where he came from. Jmo
He spent a third of his life in Iowa. How is living in a cage better than the life he carved out in Iowa?
Sounds to me like a pretty good life compared to where he came from. Jmo
Yeah, I see that whole thing being an issue with people who are in power taking advantage of their position. Not really anything comparable to guys driving around in cars in small towns trying to pick up women!The “me too” thing resulted in public figures and politicians getting called out and employers scrambling to tighten up their conduct policy before they got put on blast. I don’t see that the young men who want say harassing and even downright vulgar things to women they encounter in public are affected by it in the least.
Very likely and IMO probably true. I wasn’t referring to poverty. I have never wanted for any material things in my life. I’ve always had more than most. Imo he didn’t do this to Mollie to end up in prison but I don’t think he cared either that he would. JMOI don't believe that anyone prefers life in a cage over poverty. The suspect had everything going for him, but he has a screw loose. He had a good job, a home, a family, and the freedom to hunt joggers. He did not choose life in a cage over the life he had. He simply arrogantly assumed that everyone was too stupid to figure out that he is a murderer.
He worked at the farm for 4 years and his employer said he got along with his co-workers, showed up to work, did his job. This sounds "even-tempered" to me in daily routine life, which is to say that no one who knew him or had opportunity to observe him over time is reporting that he had anger issues or blind rages. Maybe he did.His employer described CR as even-tempered?
One thing I’d question is how closely the owner of the dairy operation worked with CR or associated with him. I’m thinking not much because in larger commercialized operations, a farm manager is hired to manage the daily grit work and the owner involves himself with other higher level matters, well beyond milking the cows.
Yes, that's exactly what I meant but as usual you said it better. Guess the point I was trying to make also was that there doesn't have to be sex involved at all. JmoWhat I'm saying is that the act of violence provides the thrill, and the thrill can include sexual gratification.
a lion typically stalks its prey once before it becomes dinner, so I don't think you can put a minimum amount of time on it.Ok. Seems some folks have an issue with using the descriptive term STALKING.
What does that mean to you?
Following her
Once
Twice
For a week?
For a month?
The only thing I’ve found that helps young women not get harassed by young men - is an old man they don’t want to mess with that’s not in the mood to deal with it. I don’t mind hanging out by the fields when my daughters are working out, the boys see me and leave them alone.Yeah, I see that whole thing being an issue with people who are in power taking advantage of their position. Not really anything comparable to guys driving around in cars in small towns trying to pick up women!
To get her into his car, I think it is safe to assume that he most likely assaulted her, hence the blood on the side of her head, and abducted her. JMO
The spokesperson for the dairy (Owner or whoever) told media that CR was long-term employee in good standing, came to work on time, and was liked by his co-workers. I believe 4 years would be sufficient time to know CR in this capacity, and don't believe he would have been retained if proven otherwise. Also, I don't recall any comments by spokesperson regarding CR's temper...His employer described CR as even-tempered?
One thing I’d question is how closely the owner of the dairy operation worked with CR or associated with him. I’m thinking not much because in larger commercialized operations, a farm manager is hired to manage the daily grit work and the owner involves himself with other higher level matters, well beyond milking the cows.
And thanks for being there Dad!The only thing I’ve found that helps young women not get harassed by young men - is an old man they don’t want to mess with that’s not in the mood to deal with it. I don’t mind hanging out by the fields when my daughters are working out, the boys see me and leave them alone.
Very likely and IMO probably true. I wasn’t referring to poverty. I have never wanted for any material things in my life. I’ve always had more than most. Imo he didn’t do this to Mollie to end up in prison but I don’t think he cared either that he would. JMO
Maybe...hindsight is 20/20. LE said no threat to the public (which they have to ) and dad thinks it’s someone she knew. So....not as likely as one would think. IMO
Sometimes they complain that I scare the boys. I tell them that’s the point.And thanks for being there Dad!
I believe it more likely he blamed his Mum.That's what I'm wondering. It seems to hold little importance in the grand scheme of things. (name that case!) He had no regard for her life, he freaking murdered her. It's so very far beyond 'did he blame her".
"Rapists nurture a lot of rage against their targets, habitually referring to them disdainfully and abusively, almost dehumanising them as a base object of desire. They have an insatiable sadistic desire to enact their sexual fantasies, mostly violent, bloody outrage; this sets them apart from a normal person. A normal person may indulge in wild fantasies of lurid sexual encounters, it’s only the rapist who works tirelessly towards realising it."
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That's where I'm at, too. If it was planned, there had to be somewhere less inconvenient and where a farmer wouldn't be harvesting in a couple months.I’ll admit this is where I lose any sequence to a timeline because it’s beyond my imagination that someone planning an abduction would take their intended victim to a cornfield.
Its not! Imo. That's why I said it sounds to me his life was pretty good, at least the last 7 years or so. Probably better than Mexico.He spent a third of his life in Iowa. How is living in a cage better than the life he carved out in Iowa?
My dad used to follow in a car when my sister ran along the road. Now she carries a spray.The only thing I’ve found that helps young women not get harassed by young men - is an old man they don’t want to mess with that’s not in the mood to deal with it. I don’t mind hanging out by the fields when my daughters are working out, the boys see me and leave them alone.
I do think some degree of a sex assault took place or is suspected...especially as the judge mentioned possible sex offender status. If her clothes were removed, that may be enough to add some degree of sex assault. But even if they do not charge him for sexual assault, I think it will be implied in the minds of the jurors. When women are attacked by male strangers, it will always be in the minds of jurors. But his sentence will life life without parole regardless. Jmo