Redvines86
Verified friend Chad and Tammy Daybell
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All of them are on YoutubeI fell sound asleep.....missed Tricia...is there some where I can listen to the podcast tomorrow? Thanks.
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All of them are on YoutubeI fell sound asleep.....missed Tricia...is there some where I can listen to the podcast tomorrow? Thanks.
Wow! So, do my ears deceive me or did Lori just reference The Commandments are she supports them. Is she thinking of the same Commandments I am thinking of? Bearing false witness, adultery, killing,etc???[/QUOTE]Geeez.
LVD ‘s voice!
Is that JJ talking in the background?
Thank you for this1. Tricia's Youtube tonight is amazing! So much info about JR and CV and both of their cases which the FBI are looking at now. I've learned more about the case tonight than I thought possible. This info will be a big part of the Vallow/Daybell story moving forward.
2. WTAF has not something wrong, or something that wasn't going to happen. Honestly, thank heaven it was them. But this is all info coming out and there will be so much more, the second husband's story is just coming out, and we lerning so much about Lori and Chad and everyone involved, MOO.
With all due respect, our identities are not secret. Our names and faces are out there as the face of WTAF. Aimee and I are both easily found and accessible across all social media. We chose to keep our individual, personal WS profiles private that we have each had for years. Those are our personal profiles and we have the right to our anonymity for those profiles, per WS rulesI guess I'm gonna have to do some prolific expansion of my ignore list: I have all kinds of problems with folks who want to keep their identities secret but think it's okay to broadcast confidential details of childrens' lives, taking away every shred of anonymity from those poor victims.
155etta said:Could she possibly be trying to get out of the Madison County jail and into the Fremont County jail where Chad is? If she posted bail on the Madison charges and then just had the million dollar bond on the Fremont charges, would they have to transfer to the Fremont County jail?
Yes, absolutely, horrible things are coming out about the levels of evil that Lori reached. It is horrible for the people involved, but what a great thing for them to find out the truth! To know they're not crazy, to know that things they remember make sense. Will it take a lifetime for them to figure it out, make sense of it, get therapy? Yes! We will be heavily involved in the case for maybe two/three years? Sure. Do all of Lori and Chad's kids, unlike us, have a lifetime of being heavily involved? Sure. But they need all of this info to be able to understand the evilness of Lori and Chad. Truth hurts but eventually heals. Secrets fester but never heal. MOO. Remember, Aimee and Danielle are not the bad guys here. Lori is the evil person that did these horrible things. Lori is the bad guy. MOO
I fell sound asleep.....missed Tricia...is there some where I can listen to the podcast tomorrow? Thanks.
Thank you for this post @Redvines86!Yes, absolutely, horrible things are coming out about the levels of evil that Lori reached. It is horrible for the people involved, but what a great thing for them to find out the truth! To know they're not crazy, to know that things they remember make sense. Will it take a lifetime for them to figure it out, make sense of it, get therapy? Yes! We will be heavily involved in the case for maybe two/three years? Sure. Do all of Lori and Chad's kids, unlike us, have a lifetime of being heavily involved? Sure. But they need all of this info to be able to understand the evilness of Lori and Chad. Truth hurts but eventually heals. Secrets fester but never heal. MOO. Remember, Aimee and Danielle are not the bad guys here. Lori is the evil person that did these horrible things. Lori is the bad guy. MOO
Thank you for this post @Redvines86!
For all those folks who are so upset about WTAF releasing all of the divorce documents, I do understand why you are offended but I would like to add a personal story that might slightly change your mind.
Full disclosure, I grew up in a very similar situation with a mother very much like LVD. Extremely contentious divorce between parents (fortunately no one was murdered) but I heard all kids of lies about my father from my mom. Horrific things that children should never even consider - let alone their Father. My mother swore up and down about these stories and they got more and more involved as she told them over the years (convincing herself they were true). My Dad talked with me, told me the truth at age 13 (which my Mom denied), and when I was in my 40's he gave me the actual divorce papers. Thank god I was able to see the real truth (instead of wonder the rest of my life) and to know the way things actually went down and how those things jived with my own memories as a small child.
I do believe in protecting children but they don't live in a vacuum, I believe in the best protection of children is uncover the wounds that fester, nurture the wounds and allow them to heal without toxins attacking their most vulnerable places. It is definitely that time for CR and at this point, I doubt that the allegations from 15 years ago are going to hurt him more than he is already hurting for TR & JJ.
JMO
Here was your original post: SBM. I'm having trouble quoting it for some reason.
I've known people from the most horrible childhoods you could imagine who have done some of the most remarkably positive things in their lives and for other people. And I've seen people who come from the most unremarkably normal childhoods go on to commit unspeakable atrocities.
I don't think having an f-ed up family explains mental illness or personality disorders, unless there is a hereditary genetic condition in play, which I don't think any of us can say.
My response was that I do not agree with this bolded statement. I took your statement to mean that if someone, anyone has a personality disorder or mental illness, growing up in a screwed up family is never a factor. Because that's what you said. I know nothing about Lori's childhood and I wouldn't pretend to know what caused her to be the way she is. But this discussion is OT because I am stating that I have no idea what her circumstances were growing up. In fact, I think there was a post from admin awhile back that we were not to discuss any mental condition she may or may not have because we do not know of any professional diagnosis. Discussing the mental condition or psychopathy of other criminals is for a whole other forum. IMO
I would have preferred to have it validated by multiple people when I was young for many reasons and in my case it would have been better to have it blasted on youtube than for me to be left w/cognitive dissonance and being beaten for speaking about what I knew to be true (just so my Mom could continue her lies). I am not looking for sympathy but hoping to enlighten those who feel indignant about the release of the WTAF documents for the sake of the kids involved.I am sorry for what you went through.
I also think CR is pretty aware by this time that things are not right.
My main point of contention is beautifully illustrated in your story. Unless I'm reading things wrong, your dad gave you the information privately vs blasting it on youtube.
Anyway, thank you for sharing.
Jmo
Speaking about LV's case here. I don't think the sensitive information about the child custody battles she was involved in could have legally been blasted in the media when it was happening. It becoming public (without being used in court) after many years wouldn't stop her either IMO.I would have preferred to have it validated by multiple people when I was young for many reasons and in my case it would have been better to have it blasted on youtube than for me to be left w/cognitive dissonance and being beaten for speaking about what I knew to be true (just so my Mom could continue her lies). I am not looking for sympathy but hoping to enlighten those who feel indignant about the release of the WTAF documents for the sake of the kids involved.
Maybe this will crack some light into insight that those children were all victims of Lori. Plain and simple. If in fact those acts did happen in Lori's home then we have at a minimum a lack of supervision of those kids and a failure to protect them after she found out the allegations. Instead, LVD came up with the idea it would be great to put a adolescent boy in her 3 y/o daughter's bedroom while a court order was in place to have cameras in all of the boys bedrooms & living room.
Silence is what allows people like this to exist and continue their dastardly deeds.
JMO
Good points, but just to clarify my point, Wenwe4 didn't have a major famous murder case that will be all over the news even more than it is now, we haven't even begun with this really, and especially, CR's father figure JR can't sit down and have a private conversation and share what really happened as he, MOO, was murdered by Lori.I am sorry for what you went through.
I also think CR is pretty aware by this time that things are not right.
My main point of contention is beautifully illustrated in your story. Unless I'm reading things wrong, your dad gave you the information privately vs blasting it on youtube.
Anyway, thank you for sharing.
Jmo
Good points, but just to clarify my point, Wenwe4 didn't have a major famous murder case that will be all over the news even more than it is now, we haven't even begun with this really, and especially, CR's father figure JR can't sit down and have a private conversation and share what really happened as he, MOO, was murdered by Lori.
Well, the FBI has opened up the case to look at it again. We're also finding out that all the money Lori's been running around with was JR's life insurance policy. The papers are allowing us to see Lori's patterns. MOOWhat are you basing your opinion on, as far as LVD murdering JR? Jmo