Diddian
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I've always thought Stacey's death was fishy precisely because of the timing of it. Exactly 1 month before Stacey dies, Lori's 2nd divorce was finalized. Lori would have found herself with an infant and little to no income as far as we know. Stacey was already divorced and living with their parents according to the recent Inside Edition piece. Did Lori's parents have enough room/financial support for 2 divorced daughters?
Of course, it could be a tragic coincidence that Lori's life was in the crapper around the same time her also recently divorced sister died. Things like that happen. Maybe the 2 events had nothing to do with each other at all. But I can't help wonder if Lori and Stacey were competitive with each other for their parent's affection. Lori's 2nd marriage happened right around the time Stacey would have been getting divorced. Coincidence? Perhaps. Whatever Lori's motives for getting married again were, her 2nd marriage didn't last long. Did Stacey's divorce and loss of custody of Melani influence Lori's decision to not give Colby his father's last name at birth? IMOO it totally could have influenced her. She may have thought that by not putting his name on the birth certificate and giving him the last name Cox she would be guaranteed to keep custody of him. And it did seem to work. She not only got custody, she eventually got court ordered child support from WL. By 2001 she was married a 3rd time to Joe Ryan. We don't really know much about what Lori did between 1998 and 2001.
MOO.
The timeline for reference: ID - ID - Joshua Vallow, 7, & Tylee Ryan, 17, Rexburg, Sept 2019 *MEDIA MAPS TIMELINE* NO DISCUSSION
Good points. In this case, there are so many things that seem more than purely coincidental.
After reading your recent post of the partial timeline surrounding Stacey's death, I went back to the larger timeline and was reminded that September 23 was an important date to Chad for multiple reasons.
(1) September 23 was the birthday of Tammy's deceased grandmother, LC;
(2) On the anniversary of that birthday in 2011, Chad claimed to Tammy's family that LC visited him to send a message from beyond that Tammy should stop playing "Frontierville" and get back to doing her family history research;
(3) Chad later says in a 2015 blog post that he awaits another visit and message from LC every September 23, but "so far, LC's been quiet;" and
(4) September 23, 2019 was the last day JJ was seen by anyone outside the family and it was his last day attending school at Madison Elementary. That date was nearly a year after Chad had informed Lori that JJ was a "4.2L," ten weeks after Charles Vallow had been shot by Alex - leaving Lori to raise JJ without him, nine weeks after Lori learned that she had been removed as beneficiary from Charles Vallow's $1 million life insurance policy, and about two weeks after Tylee (whom Chad has identified as a "4.1D") was last seen.
Others have likely noticed that before, but I am now struck by the importance of that date for Chad receiving messages from beyond, combined with the potential importance of "matched grades, although opposing light/dark characterization" of Tylee and JJ.
Did Chad claim another visit from LC on September 23 on the importance of acting to prevent JJ's light spirit from being overtaken by Tylee's dark one? (Makes me sick to even write that.)
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