I know, me too. My niece is going to be three in a couple of weeks, she lives a hop skip and jump from this park, and I can't stop thinking of her because of it. She's darling, hilarious, so curious and precocious. Those chubby little wrists! So many people would literally lose it if something...ANYTHING bad were to happen to her. If she were missing for an hour she would have people coming in from across the country to find her. It's so sad.
I'm going to babysit her tomorrow night while my sister has open house, and I swear I'm going to hug her so tight she poops.
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i lost my two year old for a couple minutes when he slipped away from me at his brother's football game.... full blown panic.
he was found standing at the counter of the snack bar. lol
I know how you feel. I have three small children and I love them dearly. I cant understand how anyone could do something like this. I wonder if they know whether the child is male or female. That would narrow the search down on NamUs and other missing persons data bases.This more than breaks my heart. It cuts deep within my soul. RIP precious child :rose:
I know how you feel. I have three small children and I love them dearly. I cant understand how anyone could do something like this. I wonder if they know whether the child is male or female. That would narrow the search down on NamUs and other missing persons data bases.![]()
Statistics aren't easy to find on this type of case, but after reading a bit, I think perhaps it is a woman who recently had a baby. The toddler was from a different father/relationship/marriage than the new baby. I think it would be difficult, but do-able to search recent hospital births and cross check that with a toddler in the home.
BBM: I can't either. Another poster mentioned that above too...who does this to a toddler?!? The only answer I could find through research was psychosis, and most likely the postpartum derivative. Statistics show that men usually don't do that to tots (shaken baby, blunt force trauma is more common). Only mothers use knives and other icky methods during psychosis.
I'm sorry to be so clinical. I just want this child to have a name and the person responsible held accountable to the letter of the law.
:rose: and rest easy little one
BBM: I can't either. Another poster mentioned that above too...who does this to a toddler?!? The only answer I could find through research was psychosis, and most likely the postpartum derivative. Statistics show that men usually don't do that to tots (shaken baby, blunt force trauma is more common). Only mothers use knives and other icky methods during psychosis.
I'm sorry to be so clinical. I just want this child to have a name and the person responsible held accountable to the letter of the law.
:rose: and rest easy little one
BBM: I can't either. Another poster mentioned that above too...who does this to a toddler?!? The only answer I could find through research was psychosis, and most likely the postpartum derivative. Statistics show that men usually don't do that to tots (shaken baby, blunt force trauma is more common). Only mothers use knives and other icky methods during psychosis.
I'm sorry to be so clinical. I just want this child to have a name and the person responsible held accountable to the letter of the law.
:rose: and rest easy little one
I don't think it's postpartum psychosis, or really psychosis of any kind. If you look at cases where somebody had a psychotic break and killed someone, the crimes are almost always very disorganised and the killer doesn't try to cover up the crime (because they have no understanding of what they're doing at the time). To see what that looks like, check out Andrea Yates, Dena Schlosser, Tammy Evans (all postpartum psychosis), or even the case in Manitoba where Vince Li randomly started stabbing - and then beheaded - the poor guy sitting in front of him on a Greyhound bus. All very disorganised and random crimes, all caught very soon after the crime, and none made any attempt to hide the murder.
In this case, the killer obviously tried to hide the child's body, because they went through the trouble of dismembering the body, placing it in a bag, fastening it to a 20-pound weight, and disposing of it in an area where they thought it wouldn't be found. That sounds like someone with a clear mind, not someone who had a psychotic break.
Get out of my head Migmuu!!
I was thinking the exact same thing. The only work around I could think of for that is that the father comes home, sees what has happened and organizes the disposal in order to protect the mother.
but what father does that? shoot, my husband would come after me with a knife!