She did say this about discovering that Abby went on the bridge and about the forbidden Facebook, that's true. But she has ALSO said that when the girls were missing, her mind assumed they were just doing what they were not supposed to do (misbehaving was my word for it), not to the possibility of murder.
In the podcast Scene of the Crime, episode 2, when AW describes Becky calling her at work to tell her that the girls were missing and that she was supposed to go to the sheriff's department, she says that she let her co-workers know what was going on and gathered up her stuff, and before she left her co-workers said "let us know how it turns out." Her response was, "Absolutely, I’ll probably be back in a short time.
We’ll find them, and light them up about not being where they’re supposed to be and all that." This is from minute 11:50. "Light them up" implies that the girls will be getting in trouble for not being where they were supposed to be. So, where were they not supposed to be? From this same interview, we find out that the Snapchat photo was NOT known to the parents at this time - it was discovered later in the evening while family members were at the sheriff's office. Therefore, the "light them up" in this instance is not about the bridge per se, it's about not showing up when Libby's dad arrived to pick them up. She would not have said "we'll find them and light them up" if she thought that they were missing through no fault of their own, like an accident or someone trying to abduct and kill them. And she didn't yet know about the bridge.
From the same episode, around minute 20, AW says that while at the sheriff's office she was under the assumption that the girls had just gotten distracted and lost track of time. Parents and LE were trying to brainstorm for logical reasons the girls would not have shown up where they were supposed to be. AW says she remembers an officer saying to her, "The late movie gets out in Logansport in about 20 minutes.
If you're going to be grounded for the rest of your life, what's a movie?" AW says, "I kinda had that thought...
oooh, she has no idea [how much trouble she is in]. But, we've all been teenagers and we've all done stupid things, and
lessons were going to be learned when she and Libby got back. That's what I remember thinking." Again, this is not about the bridge specifically or about the Facebook - it's about the possibility of them running around town or perhaps going into the city without letting parents know.
So to me, this shows that she assumed that Abby was going against family rules in not showing up where she was supposed to be (again, my word for that is misbehaving) and it was about the situation of not doing what you are supposed to do in its entirety, not specifically about the bridge or the Facebook. JMO though. Source:
Scene of the Crime: Delphi on Stitcher
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