IMO What happened with Chloe is about more than just these minutes that led to her death; it's are something to do with SA's personality, maturity, whether he's lazy, whether he skates through life leaning on more responsible people, etc., and I didn't intend to malign normal people who like video games, beer, smoking, etc., by any means. I said he reminds me of people who do very little that's constructive and who tend to get by because of the other people who are footing their bill or making their lives easier in multiple ways. I wouldn't be surprised if his wife has often had to monitor him in one thing or another. It was somewhat like that in my own family. One of my parents was careless, would spend money, say and do the wrong thing and appall their friends, and the other one kept them in check all the time. The other one had to keep a tight ship all the time to prevent bad choices.
I've been trying to make any sort of sense of this; that's why from the start it seemed like the only explanation was being under the influence of something. I'm trying to figure out what kind of person would do something like this. You don't just wake up one day and lift a precious baby over your head and cause her death and that's the only thing you've ever done in your whole life that was "inappropriate." We already had the one clue of the multiple citations disregarding seatbelt laws. I'd only have to get one of those to start buckling up to avoid getting another one. Often these kinds or people can seem super nice but people don't know what they're really like. The family etc. keeps saying he's such a great guy?? Not buying that.
But here's what I am still wondering. Chloe made a beeline from the pool to the window. It's odd to me. First she was following the other man who went to the window. Then she was stopped by SA who crouched down at the pillar - maybe to talk to her or maybe to get a cigarette, no idea. But why would she want to go to that window herself in the first place - she can hardly see it from the pool area at her height. It was about 30 or more feet away from her. It seems like it must have been mentioned to her by someone. Was her brother still at the pool or not? He was close by, that's all we know, because he was the first one at the scene.