I have to be honest with myself. If JR were my son, I cannot (honestly) say that I wouldn't have gone to get him quickly either. I mean really, let's be real with ourselves and think of the implications...
1. I would want my son to be honest (even if he were guilty). The Christian and ethical side of me would expect and encourage telling the truth - especially if it were an accident, but even if it were outright murder. However, I would get an attorney immediately to help guide us through that process.
2. While I would feel incredible guilt over considering my own son above the needs of Lauren's family, in this situation, I wouldn't know them personally and well, he'd still be my son. I'd like to think that I wouldn't do what I'm about to say, but well.....I might in the REAL world......Early on, no one knew what was going on. There was talk of serious
Drug Lord involvement. Evidence can be planted, your kid could say the wrong thing, and could be killed. I honestly think that this would have entered most parents' minds. While I would want him to cooperate, getting him out of there may be in his best interest....while I'd want him to pay the consequences, certainly I wouldn't want him dead. Leaving him there to face fire, could result in his death either way.
3. My very first and most critical concern would be for my own son, I have to admit. I would think also, that no one would know him better than us (his parents). Having him home, we could watch his moves, get a sense whether he knows more - is guilty or innocent. LE can't necessarily ascertain that from an interview so bringing them home wasn't ALL such a bad idea, as long as the Parents have my #1 (above) in their heart.
4. When in a situation like this, seriously we as parents would have probably NO precedence to help us know how to react/behave. I think the "Mother Bear" / Protector instinct may take over. It's easy to say that they look guilty and that they should be down there helping with the searches, but we do not KNOW their state. Wow, if they are innocent, some of these kids may be in therapy, just knowing what happened to their friend and knowing they were out with her the night before. Imagine how they are if they're guilty!
5. I will not judge these boys - or their parents. I do think one or some, or perhaps all are probably guilty of something involving her disappearance (beyond just maybe giving her drugs) but guilty or not, I think hiring an attorney is the best thing to do and I also think that they were advised to get home immediately.
6. I do know that most attorneys will want to speak with the client ASAP. JR lives in Indy I believe, right? His attorney probably told his Dad, "He what? He was the last person to admittedly see a miss girl? Get him home NOW." In the grand scheme of things, because we do not know how to react, I think most of us would entrust our attorney. That's why he makes big money. It doesn't always LOOK good but in the long run, it may provide us with the best outcome if we truly are innocent.
Some/many of you may be thinking that I'm being too empathetic towards possible criminals. I'm not. I'm just trying to be fair, and it's fair to say that we are assuming and can't possibly understand a. what they are going through or b. what we may honestly do in the same situation.