I think it's all really bad with the way Lauren's friends have been treated. NOT here at WS, because I think we tend to be pretty respectful here. Yes we speculate and talk about possible scenarios, but everyone tends to keep an open mind.
Out of WS, there are blogs and posts like the ones from TG convicting Lauren's friends. I mean this is not fair. These people might have NOTHING to do with Spierer's dissapearance. We have no idea how we would act if one of our close friends went missing, or if one of our close friends went missing on our "watch".
Maybe these guys are simply listening to their own parents' pleas to stay quiet and keep a low profile - to protect their family. We do not know what's going on.
Right now, there is ZERO evidence of foul play, ZERO evidence that one of Lauren's friends are invovled in what happened to her. Yes, we can speculate, but I don't think we should expose people or convict them. Or even judge how they should or should not be acting.
Maybe the only thing these kids are guilty of is of partying too hard. And maybe they are quiet because whatever went down that night was common for them and there is simply nothing for them to say.
In defense of TG and some of the others, I'll cite two examples: CR and MB.
These are, apparently, two individuals who have given their full cooperation, maintained the same story from day 1, and gone about their lives since.
They have not:
1. refused to talk
2. changed their story or offered conflicting accounts, like some people
3. left town
4. laywered up, and even when CR got a lawyer, the lawyer was VERY forthcoming, unlike JR's
Now, note that CR and MB are no longer talked about in the media or blogosphere.
They have essentially been exonerated.
It is the people who change their stories, or leave town to never be seen again, or laywer up, or won't talk to police,
it is these people that are drawing negative attention in the online world.
Poor JR, he won't talk to anyone, he offered no help to find his friend, he lawyered up, left town, won't talk.
Poor JR.
Poor HT. She changes her story every time she opens her mouth. She takes pictures and smiles for and seeks out the cameras every chance she gets.
Poor HT.
All these poor, poor people.