Abbey, I understand and for the most part agree with your first point. However I share Ixchel's take on "partying" as well. On Day 1, HT set the stage and did irrevocable harm when she said Lauren "went too far." And fwiw it pisses me off when the media use "partying", one of the worst violators being Shawn Colvin, LOHUD reporter, "a night of partying." Irresponsible journalism--what else is new?
Regarding the second point, I can appreciate this too, but I think you know my thoughts about this. More than anything else, rather than it being victim blaming I think it's a fair and innocent assumption (by more than the regulars here), especially given that Lauren told JW she was staying in that night and she did not. Instead, she went to a party. Also, she purportedly left JR's and went with CR to his apt while the others headed to Sports. Bottom line is I do not believe she was incapacitated the entire night; there was Part A and Part B.
bbm interesting, maybe we should divide the evening into part A and part B.
Part A)
So many things going on that day. Pre-partying starts early and has become a
fierce rival to tailgating. Sometimes, but not usually, food is added and then it's the new 'tailgating' without being in the parking lot. So various pre-parties going on
1) SW, down the hall from Lauren's and HT's apts
2a) JR's pre-party at 5N that ran out of booze before Lauren got there.
3) JW was with buds and roommates over at the house. Aepis got kicked off campus, so a bunch of them rented houses by each other and had their frat that way.
2b) CR had a small branch off for an hour. Although some may say the confrontation begins Part B, IMO it's pre-party 2b.
4) Unknown party at 10th and College. Of the 3 apt/condo buildings, meaning SW, 3N and 10th and C, you will find more locals/dropouts and hard drugs here.
Aepis first settled here when they got kicked out. When Zoe Camp talks about that night and when Lauren was buzzing her, she never mentions another soul, as if she was totally alone when Lauren and CR buzzed. I don't believe that.
After the extended pre-parties, where did everyone go? Is it safe to assume that just one person, all we need is one person, went over to pre-party 3 at JW's?
Did DR leave pre-party 2b, go over to SW and tell HT what Lauren was up to?
Or was HT already there at pre-party 2a,JR's, arriving there while Lauren was at
2b, and then move on to Unknown pre-party 4 while Lauren headed to Kilroy's?
Where all these people went after pre-partying could matter if the killer(s) is/are among them.
Either it's random or someone among the pre-partiers and their dealers/entourage did it.
To me, what stands out about these pre-partiers is that they will not admit they were super-intoxicated just like Lauren. The emotions jealousy and self-righteousness are extremely amplified by intoxications. How dare this popular,
rich,perennially favorite beautiful girl flirt with a cute available guy when she had this handsome. popular bf that any of us would date in a heart beat? And how could this adorable, sexy girl choose another guy to date when she might
be breaking up with her boyfriend, a leader of a notorious underground frat that
wouldn't quite let us in?
At the close of Part A, IMO, everyone was high and drunk, and Lauren had brought out some highly charged emotions, perhaps that had been building up all year.