ok, at around two this afternoon I called this woman's number because it was bothering me, I was thinking that i should have made sure she got home safely. She told me she called a friend to come and get her. whew! I really could never go out on a regular basis, betcha this kind of thing happens alot and it would drive me bonkers to see it unfolding time after time, next thing ya know, I would be the one in jail for disrupting the peace or whatever it's called.
But for those who do go out, please watch out for this whenever possible. I still think ALL bars should be required to post signs at the entrance and throughout the establishment that the safety of their clients will be maintained
as well as could ever be expected and that they will be required to have people arrested if they badger their clients.
Women bristle at being told it is dangerous to be unescorted while out at night--unaccompanied does not mean undated, IOW, it IS a fact that unaccompanied (meaning just alone, not with a date) women are NOT very safe at
night in a bar. yes, I'm sure there are countless exceptions, but in reality, not a good idea to be alone in a bar. I think these young women go out with their friends, see people they know, and then translate it into it's ok then to go out to these places alone. Lauren was not out alone in a bar, true. And even with her friends around, she ended up alone so they say. Bottom line is, we as society cannot emphasize enough that when you go out with a group, stay with that group, and don't leave anyone behind for any reason. And hey, bartenders and bar managers, when you see someone stranded, help them. These bars are making money hand over fist and they can afford cabfare for a stranded person who obviously isn't functioning!!
p.s. I told this girl to put my number in her contacts, and if she ever gets stranded again, to call me and i would come and take her home. I wish i could get others to do this, start a movement that would in turn begin to educate these younger people
to take more precautions.