I was on the fence but someone named DB came and pushed me right off!
I was willing to let slide some changes in the story in the beginning, like was the door unlocked? What order did JI checked on the people in the house, did he shut the window etc. Because common sense and science shows that if you're asked the same thing over and over again, your answers are going to start to vary as the more you're asked to recall a memory, the higher the chance that your perception of that memory can be altered becomes. If that makes any sense whatsoever.
Anyways, I can't let slide major changes in the stories. Being hours different in time of when you last checked on the baby or being unsure if you even checked on her at all before you went to bed. And all of the sudden the phone that they were so desperately searching for to call 911- Oh by the way, we didn't pay our bill and they don't work. We couldn't have called anyone in the middle of the night. (Yes, I am aware that a phone with no service will still dial 911 and this is probably why they were looking for them) But it just looks really sketchy that DB originally said they had these 3 phones on the table and one of which did not work, and one of which was having the numbers put into it because she was going to use that phone now. Someone suggested that the new phone she was adding numbers into might have had a different service carrier, and not the one that cut off their service. I find this unlikely because for the phone to have come to DB with a different service provider means the phone is still an active phone, so if it was her dad's(?) he loses that phone number with that phone. I don't know many people that would just give up a phone they're using like that. Usually you give away or sell an inactive phone you're not using so the new user can activate it.
And to DB- yes, there is nothing wrong with you having your adult time, THATS WHAT A BABYSITTER IS FOR!
---Unrelated anecdote here, last Christmas, with the holiday stress, I decided that one night after the baby went to bed, it would be a good idea to drink some cocktails while we decorated the Christmas tree. Well, I hadn't had anything to drink since having my son 6 months earlier and I got pretty wasted pretty fast. As you can guess, I ended up getting sick. The baby woke up at 3- which was his normal at that age and was crying while my hubby made the bottle and changed him. It broke my heart into tiny tiny pieces listening to him cry (even though he was in perfectly capable and loving hands) and feeling too incapacitated to care for him. Worst feeling in the world, you know? Enough to make me never do that again. I HATE feeling like my kid might need me and I won't be available to him.
These days most people taking anti-anxiety meds are taking an SSRI or SNRI- they try to reserve things like Valium and Xanax for really severe cases and those drugs are for immediate relief versus a state of control. The SSRI's and SNRI's can increase the effects of alcohol because these drugs are processed in the same part of the liver that processes alcohol, generally just making alcohol stay in he blood stream longer.
At this point, I would not be surprised is DB came out and said that not only was she drunk, but she took a sleeping pill or a xanax before she passed out too. Ambien for one, causes a lot of people to have amnesia. Similar effects might be found with Lunesta.
Her behavior is just so strange as of late that I can't confidently feel sorry for her. Yes, she does express the desire to have her child back, but then immediately expressing that she talks about all the things she won't do to help facilitate that.:dunno: