shelley921
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I was flabbergasted to hear Jodi say she failed kindergarten. I'd never heard of such a thing. That's a HUGE red flag, IMO.
Success in kindergarten depends on many factors, not just intellectual ability. If fine motor skills are extremely weak and the child is immature and has a very short attention span he or she may need the gift of time and another year in kindergarten. People think repeating kindergarten would be devastating for a child but it can terrible to go to 1st grade unable to learn and then you get further behind every year. Back before 1950 they used to retain a lot of not so bright kids but the thinking changed on that and actually retaining [ not "failing" or "flunking"] average or above average kids works out better than retaining limited ability kids. Lower IQ kids can be held back every year and still not ever be at grade level.
Development among kindergarten-age children varies tremendously. One child may come to school already able to read, while another can't tell A from Z. And a child's levels of physical, social, and intellectual development may be wildly uneven.
What's more, kindergartners can range in age from 4 to 6 because about 5 percent of kids repeat the year and another 7 percent wait a year before starting, according to figures from the National Center for Educational Statistics.