I am having such a hard time with the 'Travis as big user' theme by Nurmi.
Do guys that are using girls call them almost everyday (I don't care what time of day or night it is)? During those almost daily conversations do guys who are 'users' talk to them about life, sex, spirituality, their future, and a myriad of other topics, FOR HOURS?
Do guys that are 'using' a girl invite them to their homes, and their friends homes for parties and special occasions? Introduce these girls to their friends and colleagues?
Do guys that are 'using' girls take them on vacations... sell them their car... or help them out with extra cash by having them clean their house or let them stay at their house to help them save money?
Travis introduced her to his grandma that raised him... is that what a 'user' does?
Give me a break!
Does a 'user/abuser' talk to the girl about aiming higher to reach their full potential? That is THE most ridiculous thing I have heard so far.
Guys that are not interested in a girl DO NOT SPEND THAT MUCH TIME ON THEM.
If Nurmi thinks the jury is going to buy this crap then he is just as um... unintelligent as his lying, murdering client.
ETA changed from 'here' to Nurmi, I didn't word it well- I didn't mean 'here' at WS!