I think Travis was a great guy but I also think he and Jodi were both equally responsible for their roller coaster relationship. If he truly wanted NOTHING to do with her then he should NOT have had any contact with her, especially the sex. I believe he was giving mixed feelings by continuing to have a sexual relationship with her. He could have said no. He did NOT deserve to die and Jodi does NOT get a pass for what she did but I do not think he was all sweet and innocent in their relationship.
You know what I find different with this....SHE kept coming back to HIM. He wasn't out following her around or just showing up at her door. I remember something to the effect that her calls to Travis were almost 3X the amount he called her "after" they weren't "official" anymore.
In her letter to Travis, she said she "understood" everything. She references him SAYING that he didn't want to upset Deanna, he wanted to retain his bachelor "status" or whatever, that his friends complained about her, etc. So, basically, seems he DID, in fact, tell Jodi these reasons for how things were. Bachelor "status", come on now!! THAT pretty much says it all.
She even states in the letter they were FRIENDS, not "secret lovers".
She's telling Ryan she's coming to visit him, yet, she "supposedly" planned with Travis to come to his house?? So, she went to Utah via Arizona.
Yet, I'm pretty positive Travis didn't know about her supposed "original" plans to visit Ryan. So, IMO, apparently SHE was being deceitful....and obviously playin the field, as well. IMO, she enjoyed trying to make TA jealous....IMO, she tried at any opportunity she could. Why go into "this guy" or "that guy" if you're continuously carrying on with Travis. The whole "but you TOLD me I should date" was exactly what she wanted to be able to say. She enjoyed his getting somewhat "miffed" by her telling him about the other guys.
It was her going after these other guys and playing it up to Travis. And, IMO, there really wasn't any way to tell JA "no". If telling someone you want to be looked at as a bachelor and be seen as "playing the field" and it STILL didn't sum it all up for her, then...???
Again, no offense meant and all just IMO.