So are you thinking he's an brother to the boyfriend of Ivy's mother? I admit, there isn't any clarification as to who he is to Ivy, just that his mother considers Ivy to be her granddaughter.
I'm not suggesting he is the boyfriend or that he's not. All I'm saying is that from what I've seen it's an assumption that's been made, and I'm not seeing strong evidence for how that assumption has come about.
The reasons I can see for the assumption: he's the son of the woman who described herself as 'grandma', he lives in the house, he has a picture of a baby on his FB page that is clearly mixed-race.
I don't think he had Ivi's mom listed as his girlfriend on his FB page (which doesn't deny that she is, but it doesn't confirm it either).
So I'm kind of holding back and wanting some confirmation from msm.
Right now I feel like there's a lot of backstory that we're missing, and that we're running on a lot of assumption. There are also things that I don't think have yet come out in msm and I wonder how they might play into the backstory.
ETA I see now that the KWCH story does say "mother's boyfriend arrested". But I've just gone over his FB page again and it's not glaringly obvious from that, so I guess KWCH got that from one of the family members, friends or neighbors?