I have to respectfully disagree with the first part of this. I raised 2 children that are not biologically mine. I was never married to their father. Regardless, I am their (step) Mom and I am now Nana to 5 beautiful children that I am in no way biologically or related to by marriage.
I don't believe that a piece of paper (i.e. marriage cert) decides if you're a parent/grandparent or not.
That being said, I do have to agree that single parents need to be way more careful in this day and age with who they choose to be with. We see way too many of these cases where a step parent/boyfriend/girlfriend harms someone's child. Later, it is found out that he or she had a violent past.
It's not hard to research people these days.
I hope this monster lives in fear for his life in prison.
Fly high little angel!
I really didnt post that to well. I didnt mean all situations, just the ones like this one that has become so common. Ya dont have to be married but those titles are special so ya need a committed relationship. These are all quick relationships, almost always this person has stuff in their past, thats either not known or ignored. Yet theyre calling them special titles within months. Revolving door these days with these special titles.