Charliegizmo49
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Please talk JH. Find your source of strength and courage. Swallow your fear, swallow your pride and reputation. I know you love Lucas. He deserves peace. So do the others in his family that fell in love with him the moment they saw him. Please put one foot in front of the other and speak out. You are the only one that can spark a difference. You must be willing to face the inevitable answers. Time is critical. Don't you also desire peace?
i am a grandma too⁉️And my grandchildren are precious to me.
Can we disagree a bit and let me explain. If JH is smart at all hes talked to an attorney. An attorney is going to advise him to keep his mouth shut because after his support of EG anything he says is going to make a certain percentage of people angry.
I dont know what he knows, Im not local, I know only what Ive read. The most positive thing I can say about him is that hes a good provider. And he loved his son.
I can think of 20 negatives but we already know what they are. I hope he was trying to pull his family out of the life they had been living. I try to find the good in people. Keeping LUCAS around a violent relationship was not good. It might take him some time to come to terms that EG is responsible. Its a process and the trust he had with her has been betrayed. When I divorced it took me years to come to terms with the loss of trust I had for my husband. A man who I trusted committed the ultimate betrayal. I couldnt understand it for a long time. And I can see where JH might be in the same place. He probably knows she did something with LUCAS. hes not able to process or reconcile it yet.
I dont think hell talk and for his own protection and I dont think he should. This site will be fine without his input and later if we discover he knew what occurred then shame on me for warning him not to speak. And shame on him for knowing.
ALL IN MY OPINION.