StarEyes
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Man, she’s getting some major judgment...even as she’s missing! It’s like the fact that she’s missing has become secondary to all the judgments. That’s really really depressing.
I didn’t go to the cops after my brutal rape. I also didn’t tell anyone for years. I’d been at a bar and had my drinks drugged. I was TERRIFIED of getting my name and career decimated because of being judged on being a woman in a bar who had a few drinks, wore a miniskirt, etc etc. I have paid a steep price in decades of severe PTSD, when just talking to someone could have eased my burden a bit. I have faced that judgment even now, even within my family. The 2 men who raped me didn’t pay. I was terrorized by 1 of them. All in secret because of the same painful type of judgments Savannah is getting. 2 rapists have went free for decades because I KNEW I’d be blamed and persecuted....for my own rape! Idk what happened to Savannah, but I DO know this crass trash judgment needs to stop. She’s a victim, ffs! If we as a society EVER want people to come forward about abuse, attacks, etc, we have to start seeing them as the victims they are. I hate that her family sees all this hateful judgment, when they are in pain not knowing what’s happened to her. To think it’s played into her case being downplayed is despicable and horrific. Savannah is a human being.
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I didn’t go to the cops after my brutal rape. I also didn’t tell anyone for years. I’d been at a bar and had my drinks drugged. I was TERRIFIED of getting my name and career decimated because of being judged on being a woman in a bar who had a few drinks, wore a miniskirt, etc etc. I have paid a steep price in decades of severe PTSD, when just talking to someone could have eased my burden a bit. I have faced that judgment even now, even within my family. The 2 men who raped me didn’t pay. I was terrorized by 1 of them. All in secret because of the same painful type of judgments Savannah is getting. 2 rapists have went free for decades because I KNEW I’d be blamed and persecuted....for my own rape! Idk what happened to Savannah, but I DO know this crass trash judgment needs to stop. She’s a victim, ffs! If we as a society EVER want people to come forward about abuse, attacks, etc, we have to start seeing them as the victims they are. I hate that her family sees all this hateful judgment, when they are in pain not knowing what’s happened to her. To think it’s played into her case being downplayed is despicable and horrific. Savannah is a human being.
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