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As upset as we are with the Anthony's for not doing the right thing at the right time, the blame really falls on KC. CA had suspicions, obviously, through those 31 days. But KC was the mom, and Caylee was her responsibility. I believe during the time when CA wrote the myspace entry, she genuinely believed KC had taken Caylee away to spite CA. I do believe she would have called 911 at that time if she thought KC had committed foul play.
Of course, we would have been much smarter and followed any hunches we had. We would have been more concerned for the safety of our grandchild. But CA wasn't.
I do know and posted on one of the threads that legally Caylee was Casey's Responsibility;
But as hard as I tried to stand by the Anthony's till now.
I am over the pity train, and Ido feel for them. but to pacify them will only contribute to helping enable them.
IMO there ia a huge diffrence between being nice and beig GOOD.
I wanted to be nice and so I did stand by them a long time, feeling for them, having a casey is tough.
But my ultimate personal goal is to be GOOD - I want to be good at not helping enable anyoone ever.
They knew Casey is a big lier and they could not talk with Caylee.
Mr. LE daddy should have said after 3 days;
If that baby is not here in 24 hours you will answer to the authorities.
It does not take 31 days,
unless you are buying time.
They bought time ALSO when they did not give a caylee garment to the search team.
TIME was their enemy #1, or it can be a friend.
IF Caylee was found while there was still flesh on her bones, her body would have given
the authorities a lot of answer's that a skeleton can not give them.
So... time was either an enemy or a friend.
IF they thought Casey is angry and wants to punish her Mom;
you say: Casey fine, you go get a place for the 2 of you, until then have Caylee here
in 24 hours, or expect the authorities.
THAT WOULD HAVE GIVEN CAUTION ENOUGH to shake lose all the BS.
and maybe they did do that, and maybe it did shake loose a lot.
But we did not find out till they were all ready for that 911 call.
IMHO Cindy's gut knew, her posting tell me that her gut knew,
that writing feels to me like deep helplessness. (I know the feeling)
Cindy stopped short of going public with details.
SURLY "Ex" LE dad had some training, and surly part of his training did not
include to clean a car that smells like death.
I will not buy that it took them 31 days - I think they knew long before
and on the 31st day they made that damage control call.
I would love them questioned about the 31 days.