neesaki
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The point about the inlaws is a good one; if I didn't get along with my in-laws, I certainly wouldn't want them talking for me after my death. I guess them running off to get married kind of points to this, too; she didn't want to do things the in-laws' way.
Her former boyfriend did point out that she had a "lot of problems" when he knew her. I don't know that it could be as simple as in-laws causing all the trouble if she didn't know them then.
I wonder if anyone who knew her in her dancer life, even as Lori, would come forward if this was published in Dallas and talk a little more about her when they knew her.
And something I haven't considered, Blake Ruff, her husband also chose to run off and get married versus having a family wedding. Just thinking of the family dynamics involved, there had to be some issues here that could have contributed to the demise of this marriage leading to her suicide. Not implying they were responsible, she obviously had pre-existing and very serious mental / emotional problems that were not being dealt with by her or her husband. :moo: