Being new to this site, it apears that a lot of the opinions are based on information carried in articles in the press.
I know this is the only way people can air their views but, as an ex-journalist - and having had to read every national and local newspaper for years - I can confirm that only around 50 percent of the information in newspaper articles is generally true. The problem is - as someone once said - that you don't know which half.
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This should be clearly be investigated - it is also the way for the British police and authorities to get more involved in this case.... And the British police give regular factual statements to the press.
With everyone else, I am hoping for her safe return.
Hello MrsMouse,
Welcome, and thank you very much for your contribution.
It is very frustrating to all of us that there is not more information available to us. We have learned alot about how the news media selectively releases details and witholds controversial information. Many of our friends in the UK are very upset with their normally tenacious media.
I think part of the reason that the McCanns have been vilified by some is a direct result of this lack of information. But, it is much more than that. For many it is a "gut instinct" that something is very wrong and that we are being deceived. We can see it in body language and hear it in freudian slips. I read an article (
http://www.heptune.com/lis/smith.html) that seemed to explained some people's behavior:
There are a couple of reasons for this phenomenon. First, it seems that it is human nature to dislike ambiguity. People like to be able to classify things into distinct categories -- good vs. bad, right vs. wrong, black vs. white. This very aspect of human nature has led to countless problems throughout history. Because of this mentality, people want their bad guys to be bad and their good guys to be good, not to be left with the uneasy feeling of not knowing whether to like or dislike a given character. After all, if the bad guy is anything less than pure evil, how can we be justified in hating him? One of the most common tactics in wartime propaganda is to dehumanize the enemy. It makes it easier to kill them.
So, it appears that this lack of information has directly contributed to a sometimes unfair assessment of the McCanns. All the "theorys, conjecture, abstractions" are a natural reaction, IMHO. People (especially "sleuthers")
need to explain and understand. That is practically impossible in this case.
I can also see another dynamic at play here. Many of us are mothers of young children and feel like this situation is our worst nightmare. We imagine ourselves in Kate McCann's place and we envision
our reactions. Many of us cannot fathom why she does not react they way we would, with great emotion, agony and physical action (searching). While there are things going on that we do not know about, it still
feels wrong. We have come together to talk, grieve, offer emotional support and "hug" each other. We assure each other that what we are feeling is OK, no matter what. At times it feels like group therapy.
So, until we get more information, we can only operate on instinct and conjecture, no matter how unfair or biased. We pray every day for an end to this. I know most of us would be happy to make one last post, celebrating or grieving, and then go away from this forever.
Please stick around and give us the benefit of your knowledge. It is very valuable.
~Peace