I feel like this article is perhaps a bit too glowing, as if family members were interviewed on both sides who were trying to protect mom and dad. But either way, I'm ecstatic that she was found safe. I wish her mother was alive and her father wasn't headed for a very long prison stay, so that she could have some stability to heal. I hope the grandparents or whoever winds up with custody can give CV the unconditional love, support and professional help as needs so that she can be a child for perhaps the first time in her life.
I read a comment from BJCs friend "DR" - someone referred us earlier to his FB page. According to this friend - BJC had found out DC touched "the other little girl" and reported it. So if that is correct - that would make the victim C . Maybe TV heard this and went off OR maybe Caitlyn came forward with her own info. Either way I think he found out something that set him off down the wrong path.
I would have to agree that it would be pretty hard not to know DCs past. Obviously he was in jail before and that alone should spark some red flags and pause for consideration as to whether he would make a good spouse and father figure. At the very least a reason to do some research online. The comments he posted to her friends....to her friends on FB made up my mind in a few seconds.
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I'm a little confused how the victim wouldn't know that DC was a RSO. Aren't RSO required to verify their addresses every so often?? What about parole officers coming to the house for visits etc etc etc??? Being a RSO would be no easy task to hide. I mean I guess it is possible but I think it would be really hard to do....I have a friend who was married to a RSO (statutory rape situation) and there were SEVERAL stringent rules he had to follow as a RSO (rightly so...just making a point) there is no way he could have hid it from my friend.
One of those rules and probably the MOST important would be to NOT live with minor children . So either mom did KNOW or he lied to her and lied to his PO. No way would they knowingly allow him to move in a home with children...........NO WAY!
Well I'm surprised he was even allowed to marry someone with children in the same age range that he abused prior. That just boggles my mind there. How is there no system in place to prevent that??
But yeah I think she knew. Nobody can convince me that she did not know. Just like she knew having sole custody of the kids and TV not allowed to be around them was probably a good reason why he should not have been staying in the house the last several weeks. But I've read enough of her FB to get the impression that she was the type of person that cared only about what was in her best interests, not her children's. Very sad.
I know BJC's mom stated she'd like to have the girls to hang on to a piece of BJC. But I'm really hoping TV's dad gets them so they can be with their brothers. I think that will make a huge difference in their future which is going to require a lot of therapy and healing I imagine.