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I apologize for the rude tone of my post. I don't think that people with opinions that don't agree with mine are stupid or scary. To add context, much of my frustration comes from r.e.d.d.i.t posts I've been reading where they seem to have no critical thinking abilities. I'm used to a websleuths crowd where the discussions are much more intelligent and based on evidence.
This is so different because essentially people's opinions are being formed on which person one chooses to believe. What surprises me is the amount of people willing to believe Jay even after its been proven that he lies, he was a drug dealer, and he admits to helping cover up a murder and bury a body. Yet the argument is that Adnan doesn't remember things from that day so he must have killed her. He was stoned for at least part of the day, and I'm assuming he was often stoned in the days before and after her disappearance, making his recall less than reliable. It's not unreasonable that he doesn't remember that day.
Six weeks ago today was Nov 19. I can look at my calendar and see I went to work, but I don't know for sure what time I went in. I would have left by 1 because my kids would have needed to be picked up by 1:30. Looking at old texts reminds me my sister and I were planning to go to Hobby Lobby but changed our plan due to an event my sister forgot. Which probably means I was home all evening with my kids. My bank records might help a little.
A day with a significant event happened for me back in August when my aunt passed away, and I remember even less of that day than Nov 19th. And I wasn't even stoned for any of the time
If I was being accused of a crime, I might not remember enough to say with certainty what happened on days so long ago. I sure hope I couldn't be convicted for not remembering just because a known liar says I did it.