2Hope4
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That is also known as the "let the spoiled, unruly, entitled, rotten punk that ruins our public school system for the rest of the kids get away with being disruptive and reinforce his bad behavior technique" which I personally think is mostly wrong with our broken public school systems.
Having witnessed this first hand, I'm amazed there's any teachers left to teach! My daughter would come home crying because she didn't learn anything that day due to the constant chaos in the room. The only thing I can say did make some difference, the kids that were the most disruptive and argumentative with the teacher.....I made it a point of being a parent volunteer. I was in the room multiple times a week. As soon as the child showed signs of becoming disruptive, I removed the child from the class room, either walked them to the principal to deal with, or pulled a desk in the hall and taught them myself. The typical problem each year with the disruptive child......they were NOT being supported at home! That's a sad problem, but it happened every single year!
My kids have finished highschool now. Recently one of those disruptive kids came up to me while I was shopping. Asked if I was 'Mrs so and so', and asked if he could hug me. Thanked me for making a difference in his life, for caring, and for being there. Told me what he was doing as a CAREER now and I was so proud of him!!! However, teachers don't have time to coddle and find out what the home problem is that is causing a child to be so disrespectful! Sometimes the child has gotten so far behind in class, they feel they can't catch up! One particular child I tutored to bring up to grade level on math. The child couldn't add or subtract, and was now suppose to know how to divide and multiply with 3 digit numbers. He couldn't! He didn't have the foundation to build upon! Thus when it was math time, he became disruptive, his attempt at stopping math class.
I seriously considered homeschooling my kids at many different times.