It's REALLY easy to sit here on our computers with our internet access and all of our connections to see what's happening in the world, and judge these people who have next to nothing. It's really easy to say they should be responsible for SELF and stop blaming the system and others. But tell me, how easy is it to change what you've been raised to think or believe, especially when you have no method or even reason to disprove what you've been taught by your environment? It's not a spontaneous thing, to completely change your mindset and realize there are options you weren't aware of. You have to be made aware of them by someone you listen to. White people coming in and saying "There are other options" will be met with derision and sneers.
Here comes the white man to either save us or lock us up.
And then we blame the parents. They barely have time to shower and kick their feet up before their next shift, but we expect them to have time to dedicate to contemplating how to improve their lives or how to teach their children they can get out of this life somehow. "Well then they shouldn't have children." Ya think? Oh wait but that goes back to the whole being raised by parents too busy trying to feed them than teach them abstinence or education. For generations, the parents in those communities literally do not have time to teach their children how to get out of this life because they either don't know or are too busy trying to keep them from starving.
So how do YOU in general propose these HUMAN BEINGS (calling them vermin and t***s is dehumanizing them so that we don't have to acknowledge that they are humans with thoughts and feelings and emotions and motivations) turn their lives around? Are you (again, in general, hypothetical you) going to pick them up and take them to their job every day until they save up enough to buy a car? Are you going to pay their utilities until they can afford to pay for their own? Are you going to educate them so that they know there are other options than Burger King and selling drugs?
Or are we going to just keep calling them names and refusing to acknowledge that for some, this is what their life has always been, for generations. But we want to pretend they can just find other solutions for themselves. They are KIDS. Kids who grew up around violence and drugs and no options.
Do some of them manage to find their way out of the inner city and make something of themselves? Yep. But I can almost guarantee that every single one of those had an outside influence of some sort. A friend or family member who encouraged them or provided an opportunity.
The VERY LEAST we can do, the absolute bare minimum we can do, is treat them like humans and hold accountable the LEO that abuse their power and use unnecessary force on them. The LEAST we can do is sentence them the same as we sentence white people for the same crimes. The LEAST we can do is LISTEN and try to understand. LISTEN and reach out to the children. LISTEN and be human freaking beings to one another.
I'm so tired of seeing people call them names, because it's easier than acknowledging that we really have had way more opportunities in our own lives than the people in nearly all "black" communities.
All, JMOO. I just want everyone to have a chance to be heard.