Steelslady
Justice for Kelsey
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Well, if the family turned the vigil into a memorial service, than that is good enough to me that they found Kristin. No way that a minister and friends of the family would do such a thing without knowing for sure she is gone, know what I mean?
I am so sorry for Kristin, and if she did indeed commit suicide, may her family find strength and peace. Suicide leaves a long trail of victims- and for the rest of their lives, they will always wonder a thousand "if only" moments- such as the husband might think "if only I got up when she did", or her friend might think "if only I dropped by her house when she didn't answer all my texts" etc etc. I know all too well how those "if onlies" can make a person suffer for years to come, a lifetime of pain and regrets. My heart aches for them all, and the fact that LE gave up the search for her is also an indicator that she is gone, in my opinion.
My thoughts are also with the children that found her- how awful and frightening, poor kids. I am sure they will receive therapy to help them through this- a necessity to help them cope with such a traumatic image.
I do think if anything was suspicious about her death, that the neighbor's house would still be cordoned off along with the woods, searching for more things. I haven't read anywhere that LE was searching the Westra home for anything, either.
I am so sorry for Kristin, and if she did indeed commit suicide, may her family find strength and peace. Suicide leaves a long trail of victims- and for the rest of their lives, they will always wonder a thousand "if only" moments- such as the husband might think "if only I got up when she did", or her friend might think "if only I dropped by her house when she didn't answer all my texts" etc etc. I know all too well how those "if onlies" can make a person suffer for years to come, a lifetime of pain and regrets. My heart aches for them all, and the fact that LE gave up the search for her is also an indicator that she is gone, in my opinion.
My thoughts are also with the children that found her- how awful and frightening, poor kids. I am sure they will receive therapy to help them through this- a necessity to help them cope with such a traumatic image.
I do think if anything was suspicious about her death, that the neighbor's house would still be cordoned off along with the woods, searching for more things. I haven't read anywhere that LE was searching the Westra home for anything, either.