I'm with Katy......wondering WHY?!?!?!
Total speculation on my part, of course, but looking at him in his photos, one gets the impression that BJB thinks quite highly of himself...the whole "I'm quite the stud...look at me" as he flexes his muscles and poses for all of those photos.
Now, contrast that with his cousin, James...the smaller built, soft spoken, nice family man. He has something that BJB can't have...Amy. The cute, hot wife. From the looks of BJB's FB profile, he also doesn't seem to have a job.
In a lot of the photos on his FB page he is drinking. In fact, one of them that is totally creepy to me is one of him standing in front of what appears to be the trailer in the woods with a drink in his hand.
Angry, possibly unemployed macho man + possible alcohol + opportunity + rejected by a beautiful woman = bad news
Just thoughts...all of them sad.